Congrats to you! Your thread really injected a shot of inspiration in me.
Wish you success in enjoying total freedom from this point forward!:very_drunk:
Nothing to hide anymore, what a relief!
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Wish you success in enjoying total freedom from this point forward!:very_drunk:
You're probably still physically attracted to her, thats a huge plus!I suppose I'm the exception. Still happy after almost 20 years of marriage.
But my ex went chubby, stopped looking after herself, and my eyes started wondering.
That was the beginning of the end
I had one if the easiest divorces in the world.
Both in agreement no fighting, no lawyers about 750 in fees and expenses.
Wish the Catholic part was as easy. But that one takes times an way way more expensive about 1500 so far.
But new wife wants a Catholic ceremony, after two kids dont see the point, but we cant participate in the sacraments, which are kind of important to my wife.
Both in agreement no fighting, no lawyers about 750 in fees and expenses.
Wish the Catholic part was as easy. But that one takes times an way way more expensive about 1500 so far.
But new wife wants a Catholic ceremony, after two kids dont see the point, but we cant participate in the sacraments, which are kind of important to my wife.
Yes, I'm still very attracted to her. If she started packing on the pounds and didn't take care of herself, it might be a different story. Looks fantastic for her age, the cute little spinner she is. She's also open minded, into threesomes, couples play, sex clubs etc. Every month or so I'll see her flashing her tits and making out with a girl at a party. She's a slut. lol
My divorce took almost 5 years if you include the separation. The actual divorce took about 2 years. This was after a fairly long marriage (over 20 years - 15 of those pretty good, even though I hobbied throughout. For me, it wasn't about sex (which was good) or attraction (my ex is still attractive). It just got to a point where I couldn't stand being in the same room, let alone married.
We stayed out of court - so everything was about getting the separation agreement done and case conference stuff. My ex was a total entitled psycho during the divorce, so getting a fair agreement took time - plus she lied on a lot of submissions. The problem with the divorce process is that all the "pre-trial" stuff (the documents you submit to prepare for the case conference, etc) are all "without prejudice". So my ex's lawyer (I am assuming) took the strategy of lying since none of it would ever come back to bite if we ever did end up in court. I stressed too much over this BS because in the end - it was pretty straight forward how assets were divided and how support was paid out. Wasted a lot of time and lawyer's fees correcting the record.
For anybody considering divorce - make sure you prepare well ahead of time. Start keeping records going forward and getting basic historical records compiled. The date you separate should be documented - even if it's a separation under the same roof. This establishes the timeline and as another poster noted - is the end date where your assets are a part of the marriage. For me, I was in no hurry to file, since I was quite happy being separated and knew that the actual divorce would be an even bigger financial hit. Having said that, in hindsight, if I were to do it again - I would just file asap. Get it over with. The actual divorce process is a shit-show and brings out the worst in people - delaying it didn't make it any better.
I am, thank you. She weighed 105 lbs. when we met. Almost 20 years later she weighs just 5 lbs. more. Before her, I dated a hot blonde who was a doctor. She would turn heads everywhere we went, but after 7 years our relationship fizzled. We never got married, had no kids and we separated amicably. I think the timing wasn't right. We still keep in touch on Facebook though.
Come to think of it, I keep in touch with 6 different women I've dated and my wife keeps in touch with 3 of hers. I get along with her old friends and she gets along with mine. The two of us often hang out together with our ex-partners. I know it sounds strange but it works. Even had a foursome a couple times with her ex-bf and his current wife.
I heart you, Malata. ...... you crazy sonofabitchonly divorced dogs cum here. They have a sense of touch
