In my opinion, her wrong was not that she spoke up and shared her opinion. Her wrong was to say what she did publicly. Doing so privately, with the right people, would have been much better. It clearly offended gay, bis, crossovers and gay right advocates. When you hurt people, you apologize, even if you don't mean it and still think you're right.
No drama lasts forever, there’s always going to be new drama to forget the old one. I really do believe that time would have calmed people down and perhaps would have made her understand how some people were affected by her words. Taking some time back, offline, to consider every aspect of the situation, and returning with a thoughtful statement, instead of short meaningless tweets, would have made everything much better. Even though I didn’t like her last comments, I really don’t think they were that big of a deal, and she may not have meant any wrong, but still, she offended some people. An apology and statement, sooner or later, would have been nice.
The bullying was extremely wrong, and may have been what ultimately made her take the decision to commit suicide, but it’s clear that much more stuff was going on in her life, way before that first tweet of hers that started this whole drama. She was already depressed, and I don’t think the porn industry helped in any way. This industry, to many, is filled with a bunch of people not wanting to get an education, not wanting to have real jobs, not wanting to have a real respectful purpose in life, not wanting to showcase their intelligence and talents (sorry, but fucking and sucking dick is no talent, be it in porn or escorting). Same for the sex industry, not many people think highly of escorts, strippers, etc...
That is what I find horrible about social media and forums where people create usernames, discuss about random things online and become online friends... There is nothing real in there... Unless you met the person, you cannot know them, know how they are really, nor can you call them friends. I find it ridiculous when people accumulate friends and subscribers online and are proud of this and love to showoff how many they have. Cyber life isn't real life.
Some people rather have 100+ fake friends, that never call them, never worry about them, never see them, or only see them to party or when it's convinient and that comment on their pics and leave thumbs up, rather than having just one or two that really care, and actually try to find time to talk and listen to them and see them, and even help them if needed.
Society is crazy. Fame and fortune is much more important these days than real love and friendship. One person is enough to love and care for you, that is all you need in your life, but when all the superficial stuff prevents you from seeing that, then that is when everything goes wrong, one real person isn't enough, you become lonely, and lonely isn't a way to live...