Reading through some of the legalities of the law regarding the hobby, I really haven't found the specific answers I was hoping for. Perhaps discretion is super important here and that is the issue...but where do you find info on actually finding an escort and how to communicate? Hoping to come across the border and partake, hoping someone can help. At least steer a newbie like me in the right direction. I appreciate the help.
What was a newbie doing joining TERB 15-years ago and waiting until now to hobby?
The legal side of hobbying in the GTA is a bit nebulous to me, I'm sure someone here can walk you through it, but communicating is easy. Just a cursory glance at the review sections of this forum will tell you no matter what the legal status, hobbying is happening, and mostly without threat of LEA intervention.
Use common sense and some discretion when reaching out. Take a look at the ads and the reviews for links to profiles. It's always a good idea to stick to women with some positive reviews on here, especially if your time is short North of the border. Almost all agencies and independent SP's can be contacted by eMail or phone call, most can be contacted by text and you'll find quite a few on Twitter.
Look in the Advertisements and Reviews section of this board for information about providers and contact info.
Personally, I'd consider opening up a hobbying email account that isn't linked to your phone, if you haven't already done so, but maybe it's overkill. Reach out by email if that's the easiest for you, but be discrete if you're asking about session specifics. Most of your questions can be answered by searching this forum, but if you really need to know if, let's say CIMWS is available and it hasn't been mentioned on the forum, contact the provider or agency directly. Some providers and agencies require references, but not all. It's usually made pretty clear on their websites and/or advertisements.
Usually it's a message like "Hey! Is so-and-so available on November 10 for a 2 hour outcall to the Sheraton Blah Blah? What will her rate be? Does she provide CIMWS? Can she arrive dressed like Batman? From Madeupname." Or whatever your jam is.
Don't kick too many tires or you might get blocked.
Have a plan a) and at-least in the back of your mind a plan b), especially if your time is short and you booked awhile in advance. Usually they'll have you confirm the day of your rendezvous.