Do I tell the SP I am a virgin?
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Candor is always preferable. Tell her up front and then watch for the gleam in her eyes! Lots of virgin/newbie threads on this site where SP's have come forward that they accept/even like virgins/newbies. Whatever you do avoid BP. A newbie was taken recently for $400 as she went out to get some smokes from her car and never returned.
Never, I have a very professional job in US and I'm coming to Toronto for the weekend. I can't risk anything from BP. I plan on staying at a good hotel and only using the agency.
Good luck.
As it has been said, being told that the client is a virgin is one of the least concerning things any SP has heard. If anything, it's probably a huge relief for her, since so many worse comments can follow "hi sex worker, I have something to tell you..."
Read some of the other virgin threads and get acquainted with the process of researching, booking, and following through with the appointment. Do you have any issues that could affect your performance, like porn addiction, poor social skills, etc.? Not trying to worry you, but it might be worthwhile to address anything like that ahead of time so that you can get the most out of your experience. At 30, there's no guarantee that you're going to get a raging boner at the mere sight of a naked woman like you assumed you would, especially if you haven't interacted with women regularly for a while.
Maybe this is an unwanted point or doesn't belong in this thread, but I'm not totally convinced that admitting to an SP that you're a virgin is beneficial 100% of the time. Is it possible that the physical and psychological demands of having to pretend that you know more than you actually do could improve your performance (and therefore enjoyment) of the appointment? I'd love to hear differing viewpoints on that. I feel as though we've never heard testimonies from guys who have attempted this.
As it has been said, being told that the client is a virgin is one of the least concerning things any SP has heard. If anything, it's probably a huge relief for her, since so many worse comments can follow "hi sex worker, I have something to tell you..."
Read some of the other virgin threads and get acquainted with the process of researching, booking, and following through with the appointment. Do you have any issues that could affect your performance, like porn addiction, poor social skills, etc.? Not trying to worry you, but it might be worthwhile to address anything like that ahead of time so that you can get the most out of your experience. At 30, there's no guarantee that you're going to get a raging boner at the mere sight of a naked woman like you assumed you would, especially if you haven't interacted with women regularly for a while.
Maybe this is an unwanted point or doesn't belong in this thread, but I'm not totally convinced that admitting to an SP that you're a virgin is beneficial 100% of the time. Is it possible that the physical and psychological demands of having to pretend that you know more than you actually do could improve your performance (and therefore enjoyment) of the appointment? I'd love to hear differing viewpoints on that. I feel as though we've never heard testimonies from guys who have attempted this.
Holy Crap! That's more than Allah gives a Muslim Martyr!You will be my 100th. just in Toronto.
Also, feel free to make clothing requests or things you want to try like toys, female condoms, etc. If you have specific acronyms that you must partake in, then read her ad first because they sometimes list them out. Some girls don't do that anymore though. So you will have to ask for GFE, PSE, etc. I wouldn't go much further than that though.
By all means tell her you are a virgin. The good ones will take good care of you if they understand that. Iris is an independent with many good reviews on this board. I have never seen a bad review of her. I have seen her myself and it has always been good. www.iris4men.com. If you want to use a downtown agency I highly recommend Mia from Sassy Angels, www.sassy-angels.com. These two are so popular you might want to call a few days in advance to make the booking.
Ahhhh Iris... I wish I had met you 55 years ago...You will be my 100th. just in Toronto.
Julie st Clair or sinful Sophia would be my suggestions. Both would put you immediately at ease and are amazing companions for newbs.
I was a 24 years old virgin when i saw my first and second (first was a BJ only) and i told both of them. Both where awesome meetings.
When i was a booker i helped a 18 years old guy loose his virginity as well. This remain the highlight of my short booking career, his mom was the one that called me, she said i was really nice and the guys where she called before where not so nice(maybe they tough it was a joke). I spoke to her on the phone for about 30 mins (it was a quiet night) and she explained she rather have her son do it in a safe environement with a "pro" and protection rather than anything else. Anyway after a while i spoke to the son and recomanded somebody for him. It didn't happened that night but a couple night later and the dude called me back thanking me a lot and saying how awesome it was. It felt great.
There is nothing bad that can happen of telling her your a virgin really, if she is a reputed provider.
When i was a booker i helped a 18 years old guy loose his virginity as well. This remain the highlight of my short booking career, his mom was the one that called me, she said i was really nice and the guys where she called before where not so nice(maybe they tough it was a joke). I spoke to her on the phone for about 30 mins (it was a quiet night) and she explained she rather have her son do it in a safe environement with a "pro" and protection rather than anything else. Anyway after a while i spoke to the son and recomanded somebody for him. It didn't happened that night but a couple night later and the dude called me back thanking me a lot and saying how awesome it was. It felt great.
There is nothing bad that can happen of telling her your a virgin really, if she is a reputed provider.
