Looking for Swingers Club/Sex Club Advice

If I ever go there I'm taking an Sp. Going there alone just sounds like a complete waste of time. I don't want to compete with 10 other guys for a woman. It's why I don't like clubs.

and for the people who are just going to be like "just get a girlfriend" Well.. that's complicated... and it's a topic for another thread.

I would like to visit Oasis some time. To blend in I would have to find an SP over 40 who is willing to go with me. I cannot go with a 20 something, it would be obviously fake.

Actually the thought of others watching really is a turn-on. I just don't want to go there alone and try to "pick up" somebody. and I don't think I'll find someone in my civie life who would want to go with me to place like that. I'd rather just take an Sp who I like that I am comfortable with.