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What is good service from an Independent SP to you?

Autumn-desilva

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As an Independent SP, one of the main elements of my career is to provide "good service". Over time, I've realized what is excellent/amazing to some, may just be good to others. (Inside and outside SP work btw). I do my best to provide great service , to all of my clients. And I've had amazing clients that make it much easier to do. Surely most Independent SP's try to provide a great encounter.

What makes an encounter with an Independent SP amazing or subpar?
What do you think is a good/great Independent SP service?


Chemistry is #1 for sure, and I'm not including that for this evaluation ***

Bare Bones - What is great service from an independent service provider to you? What is a good service standard to you ?

Share your thoughts :)
 

malata

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When I go to a fine restaurant, the more on the menu the better, so I can pick and choose on what my taste buds desires on a given day.

When I eat my steak, I don't like to be rushed and would like to savor every drop of that juicy meat.

The restaurant has to be clean of course, don't want to eat your food where you shit.

The attitude of the waitress makes for a better tip.

 

Velvets

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I always hate it when an SP is obviously going through a routine. Step 1, step 2 etc. Also hate overacting and excessive fake compliments.

The key is to be natural and genuine. It's always best when you have fun and we have fun.

Also turn off the ringer on your phone at least. And don't set your alarm ... it's a buzzkill and kills the fantasy and reminds you that you're on a timer.

Be clear on what the restrictions are upfront. This manages expectations and avoids disappointment.

The best service is when we forget that we are paying you for that short period of time.
 

black booty lover

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I always hate it when an SP is obviously going through a routine. Step 1, step 2 etc. Also hate overacting and excessive fake compliments.

The key is to be natural and genuine. It's always best when you have fun and we have fun.

Also turn off the ringer on your phone at least. And don't set your alarm ... it's a buzzkill and kills the fantasy and reminds you that you're on a timer.

Be clear on what the restrictions are upfront. This manages expectations and avoids disappointment.

The best service is when we forget that we are paying you for that short period of time.

Exactly this.

There's no bigger turn off for me than when the SP makes it very clear, all she cares about is the money. For me, even if I think she's a 10 in the looks department, this can quickly turn them into a 5. It's amazing how someone's personality will effect how you feel about their looks.
 

bucky88

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Booking communications are prompt, polite and playful.

Appointments are on time.

Bathroom is well stocked with towels, mouthwash, and scent free body wash.
 

canman1

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Your question is one most SP's wonder about. You get clients who seek different expectations. For some it is a quick release, and intimacy is not what they are looking for. Others are seeking that more intimate experience, that hopefully you also enjoy. A factor you may be able to use, is the length of the booking. Longer ones, usually are looking for more then just a quick release. They also provide you with the time, to actually meet those expectations. That is less likely to happen in an half hour booking. Even a hour booking can have some time restrictions for those wanting intimacy. Clients should also be aware, that shorter appointments, mean less chance of establishing that level. But some of course, believe they should still expect it. The other side of the coin is not all SP's will provide that intimacy, and are better suited for the quick release clients.
 

Autumn-desilva

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Exactly this.

There's no bigger turn off for me than when the SP makes it very clear, all she cares about is the money. For me, even if I think she's a 10 in the looks department, this can quickly turn them into a 5. It's amazing how someone's personality will effect how you feel about their looks.
I agree with the orginal comment. But i dont understand fully when you say "very clear, all she cares about is the money." We are running a business, and we have to be prfessional to a point. Money is buffer , it keeps thing in line i feel. Yes we may connect and enjoy our time together. we may even give extra time without money ...but it is about money at the end of the day.
 

kherg007

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To me, the physical issues - what might attract a client - has been settled as per the booking. So what makes a great SP has to do with the psychological. Thus, many things mentioned here that remind you its a business are best dispensed quickly (phones off, drop the envelope and get into the shower so festivities can begin post shower).

Making you feel like you are a person, and that YOU (client) are the only thing on her mind for the next hour or so. That you (SP) are enjoying the encounter. Being smart, witty, upbeat (of course clean) - that too makes for a great session. Taking it to the stratosphere is when you read the desires, anticipate, react, etc. to the client... That gets into chemistry too. But the best ladies can sense the client's preferences and are usually a bit ahead or at least on time with them. And meeting at least the minimum things, menu wise, in the encounter....lfk/daty/dato/bj...and no off-putting things (no bbfs, no spitting on the person, etc). A lady who does the basic gfe excellent is much more appealing than a wider-menued lady who is more perfunctory.

The fake porn noises, gagging or moans, the 'going into autopilot' as she does her routine where any dick will do....that is not good.

But you already know what makes a fabulous provider Autumn! I have secured the evidence myself on more than one occasion! LOL
 

K Douglas

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I think it's important for the SP to help break the ice, particularly when meeting a client for the first time. A gentle hug and/or kiss upon entry is a good start. Offer a drink. Initiate some conversation - i.e. how is your day going, what kind of music do you like. Have multiple outfits ready in case client requests something particular. As he's showering you slip into it. Whatever you do don't strip naked and wait on the bed for client - give him the option to undress you during foreplay. This is a common mistake made by many ladies.
 

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I think it's important for the SP to help break the ice, particularly when meeting a client for the first time. A gentle hug and/or kiss upon entry is a good start. Offer a drink. Initiate some conversation - i.e. how is your day going, what kind of music do you like. Have multiple outfits ready in case client requests something particular. As he's showering you slip into it. Whatever you do don't strip naked and wait on the bed for client - give him the option to undress you during foreplay. This is a common mistake made by many ladies.
This is great advice K Douglas and is exactly what most men would want from an independent Sp. Also, knowing that while it is a business, that she doesn't make it obvious that it's all about the money while in your company. This can turn a five star experience into a two. Some ladies are better at this than others.

I would also add that Sp's answering phones or texting while you are present is quite annoying.
 

black booty lover

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I agree with the orginal comment. But i dont understand fully when you say "very clear, all she cares about is the money." We are running a business, and we have to be prfessional to a point. Money is buffer , it keeps thing in line i feel. Yes we may connect and enjoy our time together. we may even give extra time without money ...but it is about money at the end of the day.
Meaning, ask's for the donation while your barely in the door, then shows no interest getting a little aquainted with you, and being a total clock watcher. Kind of like "give me the money, lets get this over with and then please leave". Many SP's don't realize, they're not just selling their looks, they're selling their service. Service can be the difference between a client being just a one time guy, or becoming a regular for years to come.
 

Shakeandbake

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For me I think its important to maintain the high service level. If the first encounter is amazing but then followed up by a lack luster session I will rarely attempt a 3rd session. The real amazing sps seem to be able to raise or maintain that level of making you feel special at every session
 

Dick Ford

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I will echo the sentiment about the importance of clearly establishing boundaries beforehand. I was with an SP who did not state in her ad, or in our contacts, that she did not kiss AT ALL. So imagine my shock when I leaned in and was promptly rejected.

There aren't too many dealbreakers for me -- I'm pretty open-minded about age, body type, hair colour, etc., I'm even fine with light DFK -- but kissing of some kind is necessary for me to get in the mood. And that's what it's really all about when it comes to great service -- setting a mood so that once that envelope hits the counter, nothing else matters but the connection between you and the woman you are with, and the transactional nature of the encounter becomes an afterthought. Establishing clear boundaries ensures that that mood won't be broken.
 

oldstud47

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I'm a little older to be honest with you of coarse the regular things like clean facilities and hygiene but I want to feel like I have just made love to my best friend we were both satisfied and I feel that she would happy to see me again even with the understanding that you run a business
 

malata

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I will echo the sentiment about the importance of clearly establishing boundaries beforehand. I was with an SP who did not state in her ad, or in our contacts, that she did not kiss AT ALL. So imagine my shock when I leaned in and was promptly rejected.

There aren't too many dealbreakers for me -- I'm pretty open-minded about age, body type, hair colour, etc., I'm even fine with light DFK -- but kissing of some kind is necessary for me to get in the mood. And that's what it's really all about when it comes to great service -- setting a mood so that once that envelope hits the counter, nothing else matters but the connection between you and the woman you are with, and the transactional nature of the encounter becomes an afterthought. Establishing clear boundaries ensures that that mood won't be broken.
Agree.Without hockey, there wouldn't be any Tim Hortons.

 

lucky lucas

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Most important would be keep booking AND/OR contacting client IF booking is canceled. I hear this too many times about gents coming from out of town, being on time, and nothing. This happens with Indy and agency ladies, complete deal breaker for me AND I would think twice IF I decide to book with her again, most likely I would move on AND SP lost my busine$$$

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Autumn-desilva

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Meaning, ask's for the donation while your barely in the door, then shows no interest getting a little aquainted with you, and being a total clock watcher. Kind of like "give me the money, lets get this over with and then please leave". Many SP's don't realize, they're not just selling their looks, they're selling their service. Service can be the difference between a client being just a one time guy, or becoming a regular for years to come.
Perfect answer I absolutely agree. That would turn me off.
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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my response is only valid when you are a repeat client - when an SP remembers yours likes and tries to cater to them - that is what separates the good providers from the weak providers, not necessarily because you might get more pleasure but (to me) it makes you feel wanted and "special"
 
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