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I am thinking about going to a swingers club next weekend, being a single male I put an ad on craigslist looking for someone to go with, thinking that I wouldn't get a response, I got about 8 emails with woman being interested in going, my thing is some of them want me to sign up on a verification site to prove that I'm real, I'm guessing those are the fake ones
 

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I wouldn't say they are fake but I'm guessing they want to make sure they don't set up a date with you and then find out it was a phony. Your best bet is probably just do it or look for an sp that will go with you.
 

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I am thinking about going to a swingers club next weekend, being a single male I put an ad on craigslist looking for someone to go with, thinking that I wouldn't get a response, I got about 8 emails with woman being interested in going, my thing is some of them want me to sign up on a verification site to prove that I'm real, I'm guessing those are the fake ones

100% fake! Fake, fake, fake!

Do not sign up on any of those verification sites. ANYONE who ever asks for your credit card info is a scammer and will run your credit card to the max and/or try to blackmail you.
 

Sammy78

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Thanks for the help, some pics they sent look inviting and I was so close to giving out my credit card info, I guess that's what you get when using craigslist
 

doggystyle99

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I am thinking about going to a swingers club next weekend, being a single male I put an ad on craigslist looking for someone to go with, thinking that I wouldn't get a response, I got about 8 emails with woman being interested in going, my thing is some of them want me to sign up on a verification site to prove that I'm real, I'm guessing those are the fake ones
Your first mistake was to put an ad on craigslist.
Majority of responses are bots and have been for many years now, and the others are closeted gay males wanting to see your pictures.
 

dirkd101

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Complete scam. Don't do it. Your credit card will get racked up with all sorts of cross-promotions.
Your first mistake was to put an ad on craigslist.
Majority of responses are bots and have been for many years now, and the others are closeted gay males wanting to see your pictures.
Both accurate.

A sp would be a better bet, as you do not want to go on nights where single males are allowed in, too much of a sausagefest.
 

Zoot Allures

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A sp would be a better bet.
Do they allow SPs? I just had this image of going to a club and it is full of single males with SPs. Seems to go against their philosophy. I would not feel good about it myself



You would have to date a lot of women to find one who was willing to go. The irony is you would not want to go if you were dating tons of women
 

dirkd101

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Do they allow SPs? I just had this image of going to a club and it is full of single males with SPs. Seems to go against their philosophy. I would not feel good about it myself



You would have to date a lot of women to find one who was willing to go. The irony is you would not want to go if you were dating tons of women

Sp's are allowed, there are threads on this and some of the ladies here have stated that they do this., albeit after they know the individual, having seen them a few times. To avoid single males, you go on nights where they are not allowed, nights where only couples and single ladies (unicorns) are only allowed in. These clubs aren't free for all orgies, there is a respect given for those who want to just be mutual, but be prepared to be watched of course.

If you were dating many women, why not go? I have a number of times, it spices things up, for those who are inclined to do such things.
 

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I wouldn't say they are fake but I'm guessing they want to make sure they don't set up a date with you and then find out it was a phony. Your best bet is probably just do it or look for an sp that will go with you.
Nah it's a scam. You used to get it with SP's on Craigslist as well (maybe you still do, I dunno) but they will ask you to sign up for their site which is free* to ensure you're really you.

* read the fine print. It isn't free!
 

Big Rig

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Sp's are allowed, there are threads on this and some of the ladies here have stated that they do this., albeit after they know the individual, having seen them a few times. To avoid single males, you go on nights where they are not allowed, nights where only couples and single ladies (unicorns) are only allowed in. These clubs aren't free for all orgies, there is a respect given for those who want to just be mutual, but be prepared to be watched of course..

Of course you cannot touch without permission. Finding women at the club with mutual attraction sounds problematic. How did it workout for you? Did you get the one you wanted?
If you were dating many women, why not go? I have a number of times, it spices things up, for those who are inclined to do such things.

Did you go with a SP? If you went with a SO how did you go about talking her into it?
 
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George W. Bush

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Put an AD/start a thread on terb for an SP to go with you......hmmmmm.....can we even do that??? :confused: lol

It might work???
 

GameBoy27

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Did you go with a SP? If you went with a SO how did you go about talking her into it?
I've been to Wicked and Oasis with my SO many times. You can't simply talk your SO into going. You can ask her if she's ever considered going and take it from there. But first you need to know what your swingers club goals are? What do you want to happen when you go with her?

Some things to consider before you broach the subject:

- Does your SO watch porn or open to watching?
- Has a swingers club ever come up in conversation?
- Would she like to watch others have sex?
- Would she like others to watch you two have sex?
- Have you ever talked about MFM, FMF threesomes or group sex?
- How open-minded is your wife?
- Is your wife bi or bi-curious?

I would bring up a couple points next time you've got her all hot and horny. You could say a friend told you he and his wife like to go to (pick club of your choice). See what kind of reaction you get from her. Key is to start off slow and let her feel she is making any decisions. If you choose a place like Oasis, you can check out their website together and review the FAQs. Since they have a hot tub and an outdoor pool, that may be a plus over other clubs.

Thing to remember is you don't have to have sex in these places. You can just chill, have a drink and at a place like Oasis, jump in the hot tub, sauna or pool. Some girls wander around wearing bikini bottoms and a towel on top, others are completely nude.

Anyway, hope this helps. Good luck on your adventure.
 

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I've been to Wicked and Oasis with my SO many times. You can't simply talk your SO into going. You can ask her if she's ever considered going and take it from there. But first you need to know what your swingers club goals are? What do you want to happen when you go with her?

Some things to consider before you broach the subject:

- Does your SO watch porn or open to watching?
- Has a swingers club ever come up in conversation?
- Would she like to watch others have sex?
- Would she like others to watch you two have sex?
- Have you ever talked about MFM, FMF threesomes or group sex?
- How open-minded is your wife?
- Is your wife bi or bi-curious?

I would bring up a couple points next time you've got her all hot and horny. You could say a friend told you he and his wife like to go to (pick club of your choice). See what kind of reaction you get from her. Key is to start off slow and let her feel she is making any decisions. If you choose a place like Oasis, you can check out their website together and review the FAQs. Since they have a hot tub and an outdoor pool, that may be a plus over other clubs.

Thing to remember is you don't have to have sex in these places. You can just chill, have a drink and at a place like Oasis, jump in the hot tub, sauna or pool. Some girls wander around wearing bikini bottoms and a towel on top, others are completely nude.

Anyway, hope this helps. Good luck on your adventure.
What GB said is spot on.

I first spoke to my SO about it approx. 2 years ago. I think we have gone 4 times in the last 6 months or so. It took time and a lot of patience. So far, we have only engaged in a little soft swap, and we're a long way from more than that. It's important she sets the pace.

We went to Oasis first for the First Taste, which is on the first Thursday of every month. It is an introduction to the club and the lifestyle. Highly recommended. We stayed after that, and it was pretty quiet there which was a perfect introduction.

If you do go, come up with rules. I would strongly suggest no play of any sort with other people the first few times you go. There are lots of sample rules for this on-line, and there are a lot of great books too.

Your relationship needs to be VERY strong. If you are doing this to fix something, it WON'T work.

Hey Sexapalooza is on soon. Take her there!
 

dirkd101

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Of course you cannot touch without permission. Finding women at the club with mutual attraction sounds problematic. How did it workout for you? Did you get the one you wanted?


Did you go with a SP? If you went with a SO how did you go about talking her into it?
I went with lady friends, not sp's, so no issues with anything. We didn't pick up a unicorn, as we made the mistake of going on an open night and there were too many guys and no unicorns. While I had no issues with a couple watching, when I turned around to give her a good look again, they were gone, sort of forced to, as there were about 5 guys watching me and my gal. I've done that before, but for teammates or buddies to watch. These fukkers were looking for an invite and hung around a long while, which wasn't very cool.
 

Big Rig

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I went with lady friend .... We didn't pick up a unicorn


1 You have to find a unicorn you both like

2 She has to like both of you

3 You have to get her before someone else does. Sounds like a real challenge . Take her to a MP instead?


(a group of buddies watched me and my SO). These fukkers were looking for an invite and hung around a long while, which wasn't very cool.

I thought only couples could go to the sex floor
 

GameBoy27

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What GB said is spot on.

I first spoke to my SO about it approx. 2 years ago. I think we have gone 4 times in the last 6 months or so. It took time and a lot of patience. So far, we have only engaged in a little soft swap, and we're a long way from more than that. It's important she sets the pace.

We went to Oasis first for the First Taste, which is on the first Thursday of every month. It is an introduction to the club and the lifestyle. Highly recommended. We stayed after that, and it was pretty quiet there which was a perfect introduction.

If you do go, come up with rules. I would strongly suggest no play of any sort with other people the first few times you go. There are lots of sample rules for this on-line, and there are a lot of great books too.

Your relationship needs to be VERY strong. If you are doing this to fix something, it WON'T work.

Hey Sexapalooza is on soon. Take her there!
You also have to be prepared for what your SO might be into. You never know what she might want to try. If things progress and she lets another girl give you a BJ (for example), don't be surprised if she spots a guy and wants to give him a BJ, or more.

I went with lady friends, not sp's, so no issues with anything. We didn't pick up a unicorn, as we made the mistake of going on an open night and there were too many guys and no unicorns. While I had no issues with a couple watching, when I turned around to give her a good look again, they were gone, sort of forced to, as there were about 5 guys watching me and my gal. I've done that before, but for teammates or buddies to watch. These fukkers were looking for an invite and hung around a long while, which wasn't very cool.
That's why we only go on couples and single female nights. We've had up to 3 attractive girls at a time watching us have sex in the Shaggin' Wagon, on several occasions. So hot!
 
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