Pros and semi-pros -- AFF and SA

Chip · Mar 2, 2017

Just an update on what I have been doing on SA. Yesterday I spent the afternoon with a beautiful slim 25 year old . it was a wonderful 4 hours of kissing, cuddling, daty, bbbj and great sex for $200.

Next week we are spending the evening together from 1:00 in the afternoon until 10:00 in the morning for $300.

There are just unbelievable deals on this site but you have to put in a great deal of time to find them

solo223 · Mar 2, 2017

notwithstanding the monthly fees in US currency to get the account running....if you don't pay, good luck having your account approved...

John Gilbunni · Mar 2, 2017

Finally took the plunge haha. There are some familiar backpagers on there. Also some delusional women. I'll let you know!

OnTheWayOut · Mar 3, 2017

John Gilbunni said:
Finally took the plunge haha. There are some familiar backpagers on there. Also some delusional women. I'll let you know!

I got a popup for a site called Secret Benefits. www.secretbenefits.com Seems just like SA which i checked very briefly a while back.

I checked it out and there are a LOT of women there. Seems most are looking for some financial gain and many openly promise good things in return. I expect it is similar to SA. I joined and made a very simple profile and getting messages already. Haven't had time to check yet but you need to buy tokens in USD so yes there is a cost involved. 100 tkn for 60 USD, costs 10tkn to see messages. The more you spend, the cheaper the tokens get, standard practice.

Got an into email from a guy (possibly owner) who claims he gets laid for cheap regularly and says the key is contacting many. Of course the more you contact, the more you spend ..... again no surprise. I did notice some girls will even warn they are expensive to weed out cheapos like me I guess. I did see a few SP on there.

I'm not sure how much I will use this, I got 100 tkn and will see what happens with that. I do not have much time to invest in wining and dining (why I see escorts). I'll update after i get chance to play around on it, might be worth checking into.

If anyone has tried both SA & SB, how do they compare?

implied69 · Mar 19, 2017

in terms of the $150 / session. the poster is from Ottawa I think. In Toronto your not going to get that. I think the SA thing is a waste of time/ money. Its a nice experience but for those out there thinking about it. SA meansin burning through $$ at a faster rate versus your SP. think about it. Just putting it out there for people to be informed.

Willow Samoan · Mar 19, 2017

Some thoughts posted here.

John Gilbunni · Mar 20, 2017

There's hookers on there. There's girls who are adamant about just being given money for doing nothing. There are hideous/old dogs who are delusional. There are girls right in the middle. Just don't be a fucking mark and know the score. I have enjoyed the site so far. I'd say 3/4 of the girls I've chatted with are totally cool and 'get it', including a couple escorts who are part of that middle crowd. I'm under no illusions as far as these women wanting to 'be' with me. And they should be under not illusions as far as what a guy my age wants.

Jugo · Mar 25, 2017

Thanks to everyone for replying to my post. Now my full report:

I took out a one month membership on SA and was very busy with messages, trying to find a gem. There are many flakey girls on this site! Lots of messages and then they suddenly disappear or ditch an agreed upon meet up. It was hugely time consuming. They ranged in ages from 18 to 30-something, and at least half had totally deceptive photos on the site. One of the most interesting experiences was meeting a SB who introduced me to her hot teen aged daughter (who happened to be nearby).

Finally at length I found a girl who was willing to bang the way I like it (PM me for details). A few others were interested to go ahead, but honestly were too fat! So I took Chip's advice and offered $150. It turns our her previous BF used to pay her the same! So don't offer more than this (another girl also agreed to $150 but we did not go ahead with it). I am still in touch with this girl, but I am not totally crazy about her even though she agrees to my preferences.

Those of you who like Big Data, here are the numbers:

100+ messages
17 girls gave me their numbers
10 met me
1 banged
$107.75 CAD spent on membership
$344.33 spent taking girls out for coffee, drinks, dinner (of which about $175 was for me)
$150 spent on 1 bang

Bottom line: not a scam, but not worth it unless you have good luck or just love to plow through endless emails, texts and dead-ends to maybe find a decent lay.

solo223 · Mar 25, 2017

Jugo said:
Thanks to everyone for replying to my post. Now my full report:

I took out a one month membership on SA and was very busy with messages, trying to find a gem. There are many flakey girls on this site! Lots of messages and then they suddenly disappear or ditch an agreed upon meet up. It was hugely time consuming. They ranged in ages from 18 to 30-something, and at least half had totally deceptive photos on the site. One of the most interesting experiences was meeting a SB who introduced me to her hot teen aged daughter (who happened to be nearby).

Finally at length I found a girl who was willing to bang the way I like it (PM me for details). A few others were interested to go ahead, but honestly were too fat! So I took Chip's advice and offered $150. It turns our her previous BF used to pay her the same! So don't offer more than this (another girl also agreed to $150 but we did not go ahead with it). I am still in touch with this girl, but I am not totally crazy about her even though she agrees to my preferences.

Those of you who like Big Data, here are the numbers:

100+ messages
17 girls gave me their numbers
10 met me
1 banged
$107.75 CAD spent on membership
$344.33 spent taking girls out for coffee, drinks, dinner (of which about $175 was for me)
$150 spent on 1 bang

Bottom line: not a scam, but not worth it unless you have good luck or just love to plow through endless emails, texts and dead-ends to maybe find a decent lay.

seems like a lot of energy just to get laid once. might as well just go the SP way....less complicated, straightforward and if you do things righ AND choose rightt, you might find you can get a perfectly cool arrangement for less effort

DoomFM · Mar 25, 2017

John Gilbunni said:
There's hookers on there. There's girls who are adamant about just being given money for doing nothing. There are hideous/old dogs who are delusional. There are girls right in the middle. Just don't be a fucking mark and know the score. I have enjoyed the site so far. I'd say 3/4 of the girls I've chatted with are totally cool and 'get it', including a couple escorts who are part of that middle crowd. I'm under no illusions as far as these women wanting to 'be' with me. And they should be under not illusions as far as what a guy my age wants.

Yeah, I use the site, have off and on for a bit. It's work, but there are deals. Depends how much time you want to invest. The number of girls who want money just to meet, or to "hang out" and be "mentored" are sort of amusing. I guess you can't knock them though or giving it a shot.

John Gilbunni · Mar 26, 2017

Here was my post in the other SA thread because I got drunk and confused. Will post about my escapades here from now on: "Was chatting a couple gals of late. One hot one who I had an extensive chat with became a total flake in one msg...like we had never chatted. First meet last night. Bust. She wanted straight up loot so I figure what the hell. First , she contacted me ages ago outta the blue and wanted 300. Meh whatever you wanna do. Hits me up the other night and turns out we are blocks away. Yeah that'll be 500 bucks. Uhhhhhhh yeaaaaaaaaah about that. So she says 3 and I'm bored and I find her on social media through her pics. Total smokeshow pics btw. She shows up totally disheveled w zero make up. She is jobless and living had-to-mouth it turns out.Dressed like some kid you'd see on Rideau street. She looked like shit. I inquired and she said oh if you wanted me to look nice I will next time you never said anything. So we left and I handed her 200 and ditched her. I actually felt bad for her. Anyway meeting someone for dinner wed. "

gratts27 · Mar 26, 2017

Jugo said:
Thanks to everyone for replying to my post. Now my full report:

I took out a one month membership on SA and was very busy with messages, trying to find a gem. There are many flakey girls on this site! Lots of messages and then they suddenly disappear or ditch an agreed upon meet up. It was hugely time consuming. They ranged in ages from 18 to 30-something, and at least half had totally deceptive photos on the site. One of the most interesting experiences was meeting a SB who introduced me to her hot teen aged daughter (who happened to be nearby).

Finally at length I found a girl who was willing to bang the way I like it (PM me for details). A few others were interested to go ahead, but honestly were too fat! So I took Chip's advice and offered $150. It turns our her previous BF used to pay her the same! So don't offer more than this (another girl also agreed to $150 but we did not go ahead with it). I am still in touch with this girl, but I am not totally crazy about her even though she agrees to my preferences.

Those of you who like Big Data, here are the numbers:

100+ messages
17 girls gave me their numbers
10 met me
1 banged
$107.75 CAD spent on membership
$344.33 spent taking girls out for coffee, drinks, dinner (of which about $175 was for me)
$150 spent on 1 bang

Bottom line: not a scam, but not worth it unless you have good luck or just love to plow through endless emails, texts and dead-ends to maybe find a decent lay.

I had pretty much the same exact same experience you had, very similar numbers, the exception with myself is, I am still seeing the girl today, twice a month, 6 months after our fist meet and she gets better with time. I find the interaction is better then with an SP, although I still occasionally like to see SP's. I guess I got lucky.

Art Vandelay · Mar 26, 2017

I've recognized a few MAs on Seeking Arrangement as they used the same spa pictures.

I've been tempted to try out Seeking Arrangement, but thinking it might be less time and effort to just see MAs at the spa instead.

ironsman1 · Mar 26, 2017

just signed up today due to curiosity. let me know if you have any tips, or know of any quality girls. i will do the same if i stumble on to any gems!

Craiglangley5 · Mar 27, 2017

Hey gang,

I've been on SA for 4 years and can tell you it's a great option if you're very wealthy.

Here are two types of SA arrangements I've been in:

- Long-term SA relationship ($7000/mth): 21 yr-old DDG lingerie model- spas, monthly trips to Italy, Maldives, Bali, skydiving, scuba diving, surfing - amazing fun year.

- Booty-call SA ($2500/mth): diner + netflix & chill, once a week. Not dissimilar to SP, however you definitely feel more exclusive.

You can find either for less $ (or more), depending on the type of girl you're looking for. The ladies are legit. Just be honest regarding your desires.

The biggest pro of SP's is sexual flexibility...with SA ladies it sometimes take a bit of work to get to playtime.

Personally, I'm currently looking for regular/long-term of either SP or SA...been searching for the right lady for a few months.

PM me if you have any questions - it would be my pleasure to help in any way!

Craig

DoomFM · Mar 27, 2017

For $7,000 I don't think from my experience I'd have to put in any work to get to playtime on SA! Haha

golfer1948 · Mar 27, 2017

$7,000/month =28 escorts @$250 per hourly visit - but that leaves no money for beer and pizza so I'd have to cut back to 25 SP's a month should I decide to spend that much.

solo223 · Mar 27, 2017

golfer1948 said:
$7,000/month =28 escorts @$250 per hourly visit - but that leaves no money for beer and pizza so I'd have to cut back to 25 SP's a month should I decide to spend that much.

that's crazy money just to get laid. That adds up to 84k a year just for that, consider your mortgage if you have one (and you wouldn't live in a dump or average house, condo), food, clothes, necessities, car etc etc etc...you'd need to make at least 250k and even then, minus taxes and such, that would still leave you with a mere 40k to live on....more like the expenses of someone making half a mil a year minimum if you ask me....with that kind of salary, i could get laid for a lot less...

John Gilbunni · Mar 27, 2017

Haha I'd drop that kind of loot if I had it. Not interested nor can I afford it. I'm hoping the one I am meeting is cool w me covering expenses for everything if and when we hang (I've kinda made it clear if i just wanted to call an escort I would and have no problem if that's her steez) and help out w books etc. It's sorta the middle . I already have people who I have had to 'lend' money to who definitely aren't handing out blowjobs haha (or even calling me unless they want something) and have (of course) called pros on occasion. Who knows. I may have the site all wrong. I fully admit I am a noob with this stuff. Still scratching my head at the gals on there who are offering literally nothing except being 'taken care of'.

Chip · Mar 27, 2017

I am now seeing three girls I contacted on SA. A 19 year old student who I visit about twice a month in her dorm room for $150/visit for usually 2 hours. A 22 year old student who visits me for $200 a visit again usually 2 hours. A 25 year old dental assistant for $200 a visit which is usually 4 hours. We have done overnights from about 2:00 pm to 10:00am for $300. The deals are there but it takes time to find them. I am in my third month as a member.

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