Pros and semi-pros -- AFF and SA

I tried those kind of sites years ago as well. Just like you, i think it was a total scam.

I would write in my profile looking for LOCAL women, and REAL women.

All i got was FAKE women that live 1000's of km away from me.

Plus I didnt think it was fair that women (so they claim to be) were able to write emails to others for free, and men had to pay. some sites you even had to pay to read messages.

So your not alone about those being a scam.

I've seen a few girls through the SA site. Yes it is a scam and so much wasted time going back and forth. These girls are all out to land a big fat perpetual pay cheque for doing very little. Better to just see a normal SP even though finding a good SP now a days is very difficult as well.

tcentik said:

I've seen a few girls through the SA site. Yes it is a scam and so much wasted time going back and forth. These girls are all out to land a big fat perpetual pay cheque for doing very little. Better to just see a normal SP even though finding a good SP now a days is very difficult as well.

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What he said!

SA isn't really a scam, it's just littered with girls thinking they can get paid to go out on dates with rich guys who take them to fancy restaurants and exotic locales. Sex can be a maybe if they feel like it. I made an offer to one girl who told me she had a friend on there that received $350 to give a half hour massage in her panties. I told her that her friend was either lying or got REALLY lucky. Then I told her what you could get for that kind of money. She was just a naive girl.

On the flipside, that place is also littered with guys that make $40k a year and are offering $50 for a blowjob in a parking garage. So, disappointing for everyone!

Now that I've said that, I guess it is a scam

I think AFF is a complete waste of time, you never get quality for free, I would rather spend some money and get some quality. SA is a different story altogether, I have been on and off on this site for last four years and have at least 6 affairs, basically it comes down to one simple test, if you are looking just for sex this site is not the best fit for you, you can have cheaper price and more variety on BP. But if you are looking for a kind of sudo girlfriend without any long term commitment, with lots of outings, movies, dinners plus sex with affection and you can stick with one girl for few months SA is for you, of course it's expensive but it's a different experience than bang wham thank you mam. Another word of caution, there are hundreds of escorts on SA posing as students but as soon you get into a bedroom you realize that she is calculating time against money, a real sugarbaby never watch clock unless she has to go to a class, pick up kids from daycare or has an important appointment, it's hard to filter out escorts in initial communication but after some practice you will be able to figure out.
Good luck sugardaddying

I joined SA a couple of weeks ago. Most of the girls I communicated with wanted $400 for a 1 hr get together or $3000 a month for a once a week get together.

I visited my first SA last weekend. A very pretty 19 year old university sugar baby. I know she was a true university student because we met in her dorm room. A beautiful young girl with a very complete menu including DFK, DATy, BBBj. CIMSW an MSOG. The session lasted 1.5 hours with no rush to leave. All for $150 a session. I spent a great deal of time looking and responding to ads before I found this gem.

Chip said:

I joined SA a couple of weeks ago. Most of the girls I communicated with wanted $400 for a 1 hr get together or $3000 a month for a once a week get together.

I visited my first SA last weekend. A very pretty 19 year old university sugar baby. I know she was a true university student because we met in her dorm room. A beautiful young girl with a very complete menu including DFK, DATy, BBBj. CIMSW an MSOG. The session lasted 1.5 hours with no rush to leave. All for $150 a session. I spent a great deal of time looking and responding to ads before I found this gem.

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400$ per meet or 3000$ for a month is very common, think that's the running rate. I am surprised by the 150$ that you paid, either she was horny that day or she didn't know the price, be ready for a sudden increase in rates on your next meeting, some girl ask low in the beginning to get you hooked but later ask to buy them phone, pay their fee or something big, be very cautious.

Chip said:

I joined SA a couple of weeks ago. Most of the girls I communicated with wanted $400 for a 1 hr get together or $3000 a month for a once a week get together.

I visited my first SA last weekend. A very pretty 19 year old university sugar baby. I know she was a true university student because we met in her dorm room. A beautiful young girl with a very complete menu including DFK, DATy, BBBj. CIMSW an MSOG. The session lasted 1.5 hours with no rush to leave. All for $150 a session. I spent a great deal of time looking and responding to ads before I found this gem.

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I've been on SA for 4 months and have had about the same experience as you did, most girls asking 400.00 to 500.00 per meet. Took me a lot of time weeding out the time wasters but I did end up meeting a 19 year old Uni student for 200.00 a meet. We meet on a regular basis and she is very open to everything except BFS.

The relationship you get with an SA girl is quite interesting though, not business like at all.

If you are into GND 18 - 19 year olds with no experience, quite a few of them will hookup with you for 400.00.

But, overall, I would not recommend SA just because of the time it takes to find the rare jem.

gratts27 said:

But, overall, I would not recommend SA just because of the time it takes to find the rare jem.

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It definitely takes a lot of time, you have to weed out flakes as well as escorts but once you get a real SB it definitely doesn't feel like business transaction.

I continue to see this girl on the weekends for $150 with no clock watching.

I second Chip's comment, I see a very cute girl twice month, very easy going and very open to try pretty much anything. Meets are from one to rwo hours for 200.00 per meet.

I've been having quite a bit of luck with this. It took me a lot of time to find someone that worked for me, but I've found a 20 year old GND type that I've met with 3 times now, charges $150 bucks for a session that lasts essentially as long I like.

Another girl I met once, and we weren't compatible.

I think this takes a lot of time in terms of screening through the scammers or time wasters, but it's definitely been worth the effort for me.

Can someone PM me with what SA is? I can't for the life of me figure out the acronym

AFF was part of a recent data breach

chapterone said:

Can someone PM me with what SA is? I can't for the life of me figure out the acronym

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Seeking Arrangement

Don't forget, there's also the "club" on here that will give you full listings, reviews and contact information of dozens and dozens of part timers and students, just provide them two new SP names and they'll let you in on their secret list of girls. Likely a much safer and easier way of finding hidden gems. Personally, I don't hobby in groups, but that's me.

There are girls on SA that treat it like an escorting service, but that's not really what it is for. Yes it will take you a long time to find girls that are like an SP and for similar money to what you would find on BP. Most of those girls are going to be the same ones that are also posted on BP or CL, or are MA's. The girls on the site are looking for the rich guy that is going to give them money, buy them expensive gifts, take them on trips...because that's what the site advertises. I found a 19 year old really cute girl on the site and have been seeing her for 6 months, and althoug I don't give her a per visit or monthly amount of money, I do pay for all her expenses, buy her gifts and we are going down south in a week. It's more like an actual girlfriend arrangement where see her on a regular basis, we go out places or stay in and there is never a time limit. This is the second girl I have found like this from the site, last one went on for almost a year. But with all that being said I don't even want to know how much money I have spent on these girls, but for me it's worth it.

Pump the Jam said:

Probably cheaper than being married and then divorced and taken to the cleaners. If you're stickhandling marriage and an arrangement at the same time though ... well that's another story.

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Without a doubt cheaper than marriage...mine cost me thousands of dollars a month when it was ongoing and then hundreds of thousands of dollars when it ended. SA would be a good substitute to a long term, committed relationship - but I wouldn't chance trying to be in both simultaneously. If you are in a relationship, an SP would be much simpler.