Why do you repeat with the same woman?

Tempted Monk said:

Just would be interesting to know how a particular sp becomes a regular girl that you like to repeat with? What makes you return again and again?

Is it her appearance, sexy looks or her services - amazing sex?
Or is it chemistry and connection between two people?
The woman who genuinely enjoys your company?
Funny playful personality and sense of humor?
Or you feel with her as with old friend, can talk to about your personal things?

What are your criteria for a girl to become the girl that you would see regularly?

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All of the above.

Because I like her.

Same reasons why you choose X,Y, & Z as your favourite food and have them regularly at your favourite joints!

Because there really good at what they do for me..an what they let me do to them...lol

Because of satisfaction!!

there really is such thing as chemistry. ITs not there with every sp, and that goes both ways. Sometimes you are their type, and they are your type, and you both enjoy the encounter, and you can both feel it. Sometimes the provider is adding some extra effort and/or faking it, but to make it good sometimes I fake a little too. As long as we're all having fun!

I feeel if you have good chemistry it goes along way to have a great session.

And if ou look at the rates these days I don't always want to take the chance with the unknown....

My regular's English is not terrific, so clearly It is not "old friend"stuff and probably not her sense of humour. For me it did not start until I began kissing her... and then in my case it's like something hormonal takes over.

Chemistry.

Because she likes me, I think. Lol !

Sometimes you just click. Common interests to chat about, great service, good sense of humour, enjoy their company. They do the things you like so it is not a guessing game with an appointment.

I guess it is a derivative of having chemistry with the lady. I used to see a certain group of ladies who were from Montreal. They all liked me, knew what I liked and gave it to me. I saw them individually and did some duos. The sex was outstanding, imaginative, loving, rough, all at the same time. Man was it good. They really wanted to please. Perhaps that is the bottom line. Who cares why.

For the good conversation!

Some of the reponses posted led me to wonder about
what the answer to this question:

Why do hobbyists repeat with their wives through the years of hobbying?

Because it is boring? Or because there is no chemistry and no connection?

Great connection with her

GoWest8745 said:

I thought that the reason why men hobby is to get more variety and sex without relationship commitment. If you're looking for long term relationship, why would you pay for it ?Just look for a partner in POF.

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providers can't divorce you and get half your money and odds are they don't want your children so there goes child support risk.

Also, remember the quote "pay her to leave afterward" ?

Comfort level, we know what each other likes and we get along like old friends.

She is super cute. She has an infectious laugh. A hot body that she takes care of. She doesn't have a large menu at all but she seems to really enjoy our sessions. She won't pretend to orgasm but her face will flush and a look of pleasure will sweep over it. She is sweet and unpretentious. Knows my name and greets me with enthusiasm everytime. Of course it's about money but she never makes it seem that way. Not a clock watcher. I have been seeing her for several years and there is trust, warmth and comfort in our encounters. This business is just a very small part of her life and has not taken a toll on her. She still comes across as fresh. After seeing her I always leave with a smile and an afterglow, that life is amazing and wonderful, that can last for days. And sorry no names; she only sees regulars now.

Comfort/familiarity with; no surprises (of the bad kind).