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"Virtuous" paedophile says "I'm a normal guy. I just fancy six-year-old girls"

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"Virtuous" paedophile says "I'm a normal guy. I just fancy six-year-old girls"



* Gary Gibson, 65, of Oregon, is described as a non-offending pedophile
* He says is aroused by girls aged six to 12 but decides not to act on his urges
* Former teacher has set up a non-profit organisation to help people like him
* He told of his wife Tabitha Abel of his sexual urges five years into marriage

"...'I knew I was attracted to little girls, I was always a little close, maybe I hugged them too tight, or did some things I shouldn’t have done, but I never penetrated a child, never – what I would call – had sex with a child. 'I choose not to do that, but I struggle with it.'

'The first time I remember changing my daughter’s diaper I thought, "Am I going to touch her" or something, but I made the decision right there that was not going to happen,' he said in the video, before explaining how he and his wife chose to adopt foster children because their grandchildren did not visit enough.

Gibson says the children eventually moved on for 'other reasons', however a 10-year-old girl who had lived with him and Abel developed what he called 'false memories'.
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-impulses-reveals-British-wife-stood-him.html
 

rhuarc29

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Paedophiles can't help who they're attracted to, anymore than a gay person can. Or anyone.

It's acting on what they know to be very wrong that makes them a monster. If this guy is as innocent as he claims, I won't judge him for his biology.

Though it's dangerous to put him in situations where he might act on those impulses. Like tempting an alcoholic or taking a gambling addict to a casino.
 

IM469

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"I'm a normal guy. I just fancy six-year-old girls"
I guess Ted Bundy was a normal guy who like to murder women and Jeffrey Dahmer was a normal guy who like to kill and eat men.

How can this guy possibly get the okay for a foster daughter ???
 

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I guess Ted Bundy was a normal guy who like to murder women and Jeffrey Dahmer was a normal guy who like to kill and eat men.

How can this guy possibly get the okay for a foster daughter ???
I think the BIG difference is he never acted on it.

If Bundy and / or Dahmer didn't act on their desires, it would be different for them too.
 

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Has anybody here ever hated or was angry at someone so much they wished they could kill them or do them bodily harm? Did you act on it?
 

IM469

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I think the BIG difference is he never acted on it.

If Bundy and / or Dahmer didn't act on their desires, it would be different for them too.
"Gibson says the children eventually moved on for 'other reasons', however a 10-year-old girl who had lived with him and Abel developed what he called 'false memories'."

Really ? What false memories did the 10 year old dream up ?

Look - I wouldn't give an alcoholic a job as a bar tender because of the temptation that could screw his life up. I am sure not to authorise the assignment of a foster child to a paedophile. You are gambling with the life of a child (emotionally) with someone who admits he is sexually attracted to her. It's irresponsible in the extreme.
 

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"Gibson says the children eventually moved on for 'other reasons', however a 10-year-old girl who had lived with him and Abel developed what he called 'false memories'."

Really ? What false memories did the 10 year old dream up ?

Look - I wouldn't give an alcoholic a job as a bar tender because of the temptation that could screw his life up. I am sure not to authorise the assignment of a foster child to a paedophile. You are gambling with the life of a child (emotionally) with someone who admits he is sexually attracted to her. It's irresponsible in the extreme.
I do agree, but this guy has admitted he is a paedophile. If he had something to hide, I would suspect he wouldn't out that fact.

And, 10 year olds can dream up stuff......especially if they want to get you in hot water. Not saying it isn't true, but I think we need to be careful not to paint all with the same brush.

I would give him the benefit of the doubt in this case.
 

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I am ok with the guy admitting it. He knows its something he cannot act on and must control at all costs. So yes I respect that. I always felt if I was ever afflicted by such urges and I could not control myself, that I would have the courage to end my life before I harmed any child.
 

nottyboi

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"Gibson says the children eventually moved on for 'other reasons', however a 10-year-old girl who had lived with him and Abel developed what he called 'false memories'."

Really ? What false memories did the 10 year old dream up ?

Look - I wouldn't give an alcoholic a job as a bar tender because of the temptation that could screw his life up. I am sure not to authorise the assignment of a foster child to a paedophile. You are gambling with the life of a child (emotionally) with someone who admits he is sexually attracted to her. It's irresponsible in the extreme.
Oh come on, there are lots of situations where children have falsely accused adults. Its a difficult area.
 

IM469

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I do agree, but this guy has admitted he is a paedophile. If he had something to hide, I would suspect he wouldn't out that fact.

And, 10 year olds can dream up stuff......especially if they want to get you in hot water. Not saying it isn't true, but I think we need to be careful not to paint all with the same brush.

I would give him the benefit of the doubt in this case.
It depends on what those 'false memories' are. How can she can get too accurately explicit if she hasn't been exposed to the experience - she's 10. You have his word but maybe the 'false memories' led to the acknowledgement. You are gambling with a child's future - I wouldn't give the benefit of the doubt and risk the child.

You drop your kid off at the babysitter's and just before you leave she/he say's 'just to let you know - I constantly dream of cutting the throat of your kid when I look at him ... I have it under control but I'm thinking of it constantly and thought you should know.' And your reaction is .... ?

As I stated in a sex-robot thread - I don't care if this guy has paedophile thoughts or if he gets a sex doll to live them out. I am concerned if it affects real children's lives. I'm not against this guy living his life without acting on his fantasy - I just suggest that with the facts known, you don't needlessly endanger the life of a child.
 
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What a weirdo!!!! That is so disgusting. So he's never been caught for it, (that we know about). I wonder what 'false memories' Abel was having now?? He never penetrated a child? Does he know that it doesn't take penetration to be a pedophile? So if he goes to a park what does that mean? He's getting turned on by watching the kids play? WTF. Sorry, guys like that should be castrated and maybe hands cut off, to make sure he can't 'penetrate' or 'touch' a little girl when he gets the urge.
 

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What a weirdo!!!! That is so disgusting. So he's never been caught for it, (that we know about). I wonder what 'false memories' Abel was having now?? He never penetrated a child? Does he know that it doesn't take penetration to be a pedophile? So if he goes to a park what does that mean? He's getting turned on by watching the kids play? WTF. Sorry, guys like that should be castrated and maybe hands cut off, to make sure he can't 'penetrate' or 'touch' a little girl when he gets the urge.
Wow......guilty and has to prove he is innocent.
 

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Paedophiles can't help who they're attracted to, anymore than a gay person can. Or anyone.

It's acting on what they know to be very wrong that makes them a monster. If this guy is as innocent as he claims, I won't judge him for his biology.

Though it's dangerous to put him in situations where he might act on those impulses. Like tempting an alcoholic or taking a gambling addict to a casino.
From what I understand, that appears to be the case. I'm sure there's lots of people, probably many on this board who fantasize about certain sex acts that they would never admit to anyone. Acts that include under-age girls, members of the same sex, animals (I know a girl who's told me she's turned on by watching bestiality) or whatever. As long as they (especially the illegal ones) remain fantasies, I see nothing wrong with it.

For example, my friend has a super bright, funny, extremely gorgeous daughter who works as a fashion model. Have I thought about what it would be like to have sex with her, yes. Would I tell anyone I know, especially my friend? Absolutely not. She's only 17. So does that make me some sort of deviant? A sexual predator? Some may think so, but I would never act on my thoughts. I'll wait until she's 18. Just kidding. :D

Now I realize this guy is talking about much younger girls. But again, if they're just fantasies then there's no harm. That said, I do have concerns about this guy being in charge of foster children.

But holy smokes... If anyone's ever imagined what a paedophile looks like, this guy is it!
 

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From what I understand, that appears to be the case. I'm sure there's lots of people, probably many on this board who fantasize about certain sex acts that they would never admit to anyone. Acts that include under-age girls, members of the same sex, animals (I know a girl who's told me she's turned on by watching bestiality) or whatever. As long as they (especially the illegal ones) remain fantasies, I see nothing wrong with it.

For example, my friend has a super bright, funny, extremely gorgeous daughter who works as a fashion model. Have I thought about what it would be like to have sex with her, yes. Would I tell anyone I know, especially my friend? Absolutely not. She's only 17. So does that make me some sort of deviant? A sexual predator? Some may think so, but I would never act on my thoughts.I'll wait until she's 18. Just kidding. :D

Now I realize this guy is talking about much younger girls. But again, if they're just fantasies then there's no harm. That said, I do have concerns about this guy being in charge of foster children.

But holy smokes... If anyone's ever imagined what a paedophile looks like, this guy is it!
Hey if she has daddy issues you could have a shot...

Something tells me if you had a daughter in the 6-12 year old range that he fancy'd you'd find more than harm!
 

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Paedophiles can't help who they're attracted to, anymore than a gay person can. Or anyone.

It's acting on what they know to be very wrong that makes them a monster. If this guy is as innocent as he claims, I won't judge him for his biology.

Though it's dangerous to put him in situations where he might act on those impulses. Like tempting an alcoholic or taking a gambling addict to a casino.
These are wise comments Rhuarc.
 

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Using the article as evidence, does the police have the right to issue a warrant and raid his house to check for ownership of child pornography?
 

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Just to be safe and to avoid other "false memories"
 
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