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How Safe Are Outcalls?

drlove

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Just wondering how safe outcalls are in comparison to incalls. For instance, here's a hypothetical scenerio - if you're texting or e-mailing an SP to arrange an outcall, you'll have to provide your name, address etc. This leaves an electronic trail, thus compromising your anonymity.
 

Kazuma_Kiryu

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Locally you should never do outcalls to your residential area. Better if you book the outcall at a decent hotel, IMO...
 

Celticman

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Locally you should never do outcalls to your residential area. Better if you book the outcall at a decent hotel, IMO...
I do it on a regular basis with no issue
 

Kazuma_Kiryu

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What makes you say that?
I don't want to start listing out the "What ifs" to answer that, but you can probably figure out some of them. Privacy, safety and discretion should be a paramount concern in this hobby... I wonder what the neighbours might think if they see something unusual. I think incalls are safer, knowing the companion will probably feel much more comfortable on their "home turf" anyway...
 

drlove

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I don't want to start listing out the "What ifs" to answer that, but you can probably figure out some of them. Privacy, safety and discretion should be a paramount concern in this hobby... I wonder what the neighbours might think if they see something unusual. I think incalls are safer, knowing the companion will probably feel much more comfortable on their "home turf" anyway...
Interesting... I always thought of it the other way around - e.g. What if the neighbours saw something unusual at an incall... lots of traffic, different men coming and going to one apartment or house. That to me seems much more conspicuous than someone having the odd lady friend over now and again...
 

MissCroft

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Interesting... I always thought of it the other way around - e.g. What if the neighbours saw something unusual at an incall... lots of traffic, different men coming and going to one apartment or house. That to me seems much more conspicuous than someone having the odd lady friend over now and again...


This. If a gentleman invites me to his home I don't see the big deal. Never had a problem....It's just like a lady friend coming over for dinner....
 

Brill

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You're giving up some more anonymity and she's going into a place with less control over her surroundings so you both need to be somewhat wary. It's doubtful she'll do anything to hurt her reputation and business if she's well known on here.

I like the idea of not having to travel.
 

kstanb

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Assuming no surprised wife or significant other; outcalls to your residence are fine. your neighbors have no business on who you invite to your place. Police cannot enter your home without a warrant
 

Cobra Enorme

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i avoid housecalls. too many stories of some girl that looks nothing like in the pics and you say you're not interested and then they threaten to go knock on your neighbours doors fuck that. and then the pimp/driver knows where you live. only asking for trouble just to blow a load no fucking thanks
 

dbiz2

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i avoid housecalls. too many stories of some girl that looks nothing like in the pics and you say you're not interested and then they threaten to go knock on your neighbours doors fuck that. and then the pimp/driver knows where you live. only asking for trouble just to blow a load no fucking thanks
I only had one bad residential situation--grab and dash--where the pimp came to the door after the woman said she had to make a phone call to let "her service" know she arrived. To avoid the situation, I gave up the cash, about $150. That was 10 years ago and I was very new to the hobby and used Backpage (that was the first and time that I used Backpage). After that, I graduated to dancers from the strip club--no problems. After that, got lucky with some of the new sites just for hobbying. I 've had SPs come to a hotel as well. I had one that came and look nothing like the pics. I didn't let her into the room. No muss, no fuss.

I don't feel comfortable with incalls and tend to avoid them at all possible...
 

kstanb

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You have to be picky with outcalls, so no backpage or equivalents.

I haven't have any problem with indy girls; I have never seen a pimp
 

drlove

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I was just thinking more along the lines of that you'd have to provide your name and address via a text, thus leaving an electronic trail, which LE could (potentially) follow - your hobby phone won't help you then. Also, if the lady is somewhat more explicit in the description of her services on her site, it's just more ammo to again, (potentially) be used against you.
 

Brill

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I was just thinking more along the lines of that you'd have to provide your name and address via a text, thus leaving an electronic trail, which LE could (potentially) follow - your hobby phone won't help you then. Also, if the lady is somewhat more explicit in the description of her services on her site, it's just more ammo to again, (potentially) be used against you.
It may be illegal, but cops don't care who you're fucking unless she's underage.
 

happydog

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It may be illegal, but cops don't care who you're fucking unless she's underage.
That would be for incall or outcall no one wants underage girls involved or anyone being pimped even of age.
What indication do you have that the cops don't care? LE may be waiting for guidance from higher ups.
Also my understanding was as long as there was no communication that outcall was legal.(although with complications with C-36)
 

legmann

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my understanding was as long as there was no communication that outcall was legal.(although with complications with C-36)
Wrong. Outcalls were legal prior to C-36 (incalls were not). Post C-36, any purchase of sexual services (regardless of venue) is illegal.
 

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Out of all the options available, I would be most suspicious of a new hotel based in call posted on some place like back page. COPS like to set up in call stings like this because it is low effort high reward for them. All they have to do is post a flashy ad on back page then sit back and wait for the suckers to come to them. Plus from an officer safety point of view it allows them good control the of the environment, they can wire the room with video and audio surveillance and they will have a bunch of back up officers in the adjoining rooms who will come rushing in if the suspect gets violent or tries to make a run for it.
 
I think most ladies aren't out to screw you over. I see fake ads from time to time of gorgeous women who are here for "one day only" and the come and go without a trace. It's easy to make a burner # and it's easy to pull some obscure pictures of beautiful women off of the internet. Your best bet is to google the number and see what the history is related to the number. If she has several ads and has been around for a while she probably hasn't done anything to piss someone off or need to run from something. It wouldn't be a sting operation if the number has been used for a while. I'm sure the cops figured out pretty quick that you guys have ways of letting each other know what's up.

I do a lot of outcalls to hotels but I do just as many to residences. I've been in shady apartments to million dollar homes and sometimes I hear stories about guys picking up someone (who they assumed was on drugs) and being blackmailed. Most people haven't experienced this but there have been a few that have told me that they had someone show up back at the house and another one threaten to tell his wife if he didn't pay her. Just be cautious. There's a common scam in this area where the girl will show up, get the money and say she has to go talk to her driver and let him know everything is ok, or she forgot something in the car and then they drive off. If you have a lot to lose I wouldn't bring them to the house. Most guys use fake names and use burner numbers but you can find out a lot of information about someone from their address by googling it. If you use your real name or your real number I can find your facebook and other digital footprints related to that. In a lot of cases I can find work #'s, addresses, names and have access to the wives and children of people who message me and don't think about that stuff. I only use that information against people who are abusive towarxs me but in general people are very careless about the information they give and it can land them in a lot of hot water.
 
In one instance I can think of all I had was a burner number an address and a fake name. From the address I could find the real estate listing and kijiji ads and a home based business. The wife's home based business. From google earth I could see the guys work truck. So now I know where he works. I looked up his work website and found out he was the owner of the company.... it goes on and on. Even with very little information I can find out a lot.
 
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