I'm not sure I understand the concept of "complicated" in this case. Can the word be more accurately translated into "trust"?JoyfulC said:I had a female client come in the Summer of 2004. She was referred by one of my gentleman clients. She was basically looking for massage plus. The session seemed to go very well, and she followed up with a positive e-mail, but I haven't seen her since.
I think there's a market for this, but it's still complicated.
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I guess popularization of female sexuality is a running theme in some primetime U.S. channels right now - Sex in the City, Desperate Housewives...anything else? But it's still only titilation theatre. Females are still somehow perceived as not having a wondering eye and therefore not emotionally capable of carrying on casual coitus. I'm going to interrupt myself and beg to differ 'cuz I've worked with women who are equals with men on that count. But hey - the medium is the message huh?JoyfulC said:Yes, "trust" might be part of it -- but I think the bigger problems are:
1) "Consumer identity" -- I'm not sure that women are really ready to identify themselves as consumers for this type of service. I think the need is there and the money, but women need to start seeing this as an option for themselves.
2) "Marketing" -- Where would a male-for-female SP advertise to reach his target market? I don't think there are many women looking on sites such as this one.
Maybe what we need to do is reach the screenwriters of various movies and TV programs and get them to assist in establishing a credible identity for a professional woman who seeks out the services of a male SP, and helps create an initial paradigm for where and how it could happen. This is what is needed to get it started. Maybe the writers of "Sex in the City" could help us out. ;-)
I do think it's the way of the future. Just in my lifetime, I have seen women make dramatic strides with respect to having careers, and having financial and consumer identities. Back in the 60s or even 70s, who ever marketed cars to women? If a woman wandered into a car dealership on her own, she would have been asked where her husband was. Today, the sales people would be falling all over her! But in this area, women are still a bit backward. We have our needs too -- although maybe a bit different from men's.
Besides, when I get "old," I'm hoping to run a male-for-female escort service and have a bunch of sexy young men at my beck and call. ;-)
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No, she can get someone to have sex with her for free. That might not be the same thing as "servicing" her.Svend said:Even an elderly fat woman only needs to whisper to get a lineup of horny guys who will service her for free.
Well, I have to admit there's a bit of truth in that. I didnt' want to unwrap my legs from the gentleman who visited me earlier today. He's probably married, and for sure I am -- but in a different time and place, I could keep that guy! And yet, it's a living.Svend said:Alas, this is still the difference between the sexes.
And what exactly would your approach to "service" be?Svend said:I could be wrong - ladies, please PM me if you have trouble finding someone discreet to service you at no charge.
I am privileged to learn from the master.Svend said:Why, her complete satisfaction, of course!
PM me if you're still curious, ladies.
I recall an episode of ally Mcbeal where the ladies in the office all visited a a gentleman for a massage. The "special effect" was attributed to his special vibrating massage chair.Maybe what we need to do is reach the screenwriters of various movies and TV programs and get them to assist in establishing a credible identity for a professional woman who seeks out the services of a male SP, and helps create an initial paradigm for where and how it could happen. This is what is needed to get it started. Maybe the writers of "Sex in the City" could help us out. ;-)
But that's the thing about TV: we never actually see these things -- they're just alluded to. It's the whole "sexual tension" thingie.twizzler2 said:I think what made it acceptable for television was that it was "the chair" delivering the big O rather than a person. I think it would be pushing the envelope to have a women giving a women a sensual massage on televison but I can see it happening on a show that runs later at night. Sadly I think we are still a little way away from the time when a man could give a women a sensual massage on TV and it not be porn.
Ah, you and everybody else! But usually when we're in the "learning phases" we're paying for the privilege.twizzler2 said:Hey, I would even offer free massages to women just to increase my skill!
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No, she can get someone to have sex with her for free. That might not be the same thing as "servicing" her.
twizzler2 said:A team of 40 men, aged between 32 and 60 and chosen for their looks, sense of humour and ability to listen while the woman unburdens herself of the shortcomings of her husband, is operating in six Japanese cities.
...twizzler2 said:ran accross this article...
A team of 40 men, aged between 32 and 60 and chosen for their looks, sense of humour and ability to listen while the woman unburdens herself of the shortcomings of her husband"