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dude abides

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A BMW.

(sorry, I just had to jump on this one...)
 

Goober Mcfly

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Invest in the stock market.

Exhilirating highs, crushing lows. All within a few hours.
 

ISpentHowMuch

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Forget Sidvic.....I'll go for Stacee, Kasmere and the lovely Zoe in the hot tub.
 

slowhand

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Re: Hooker?

Zoe4U said:
You know, I hate to sound bitchy, but I kind of resent the term hooker. It sounds so derogatory. I don't consider myself a hooker. I think I have a little more class than that. Just thought I would voice my opinion. I hope I haven't offended anyone. :eek: [/QUOTE

Zoe,
It's only derogatory if used in a negative manner. The term "hooker" is certainly not new and in the context used by the previous member was not derisive.
I can certainly see why you would prefer the term "service provider" just as "sanitation engineer" is the preferred term for janitors but the terms "hooker" and "janitor", in and of themselves are not dishonorable.
Slowhand
 

slowhand

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Eckheart said:
I think the term "hooker" would perhaps better describe, street walker?
And I'm sure, none of these ladies are street walkers. While we make no bones over what were discussing here, I think I prefer Escort. This term for me adds a certain level of maturity to it. So if the lady does'nt like the term hooker, then back off, and I sugest you go find yourself a Street Walker.
If you are looking for a flame war then you have taken a wonderful approach to beginning one. You can "prefer" whatever you wish but fortunately Fascism is not in the majority and to make a comment like "back off" invites an attack. Are you that powerless that you feel you have to defend language?
As to your "suggestion", you can save it along with any other advice you wish to dispense.
Respect does not come with language only but with actions. Treat people with respect, regardless of their occupation, and reap the rewards.
Slowhand
 

ISpentHowMuch

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Lurker, poking his head out of his closet

"Respect does not come with language only but with actions."...slowhand... Your right, respect can be garnered/acheived by actions. But, it is the language (whether verbal or written) that has the by far greatest influence in regards to respect. Respect can be acheived in many ways, but certainly not by attempting to "push a person's buttons" as you have in your posts. Zoe explained why she felt the term 'hooker' was not appropriate for herself. She felt there were more appropriate descriptions for her profession. Out of respect for her feelings/beliefs, we should be willing to respect that and if we can't, then we "walk away" from the discussion. This is not an area where there are any right/wrong answers, its all about respect. Respecting a person's understanding of what they believe of themselves. What would be the point in arguing with someone whether they are a "sanitation officer" or a "garbage man", a "secretary" or an "administrative assistant" or any of the other changing position titles in our lives. The only reason would be to push someone down so that you, in some manner, feel "taller" or would that be "vertically accelerated".

Have a great day,
 

slowhand

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Zoe,
I believe you have mistaken the intention of my post. It was not directed towards you. You made a point that the use of the word "hooker" bothered you and that is your right to say so. But just I would defend your right to say something, I would also defend the right of the poster to use it. Whether using the word is right or wrong lies within the individual. The discussion should have and could have been left there, however, another poster then attempted the "I'm a knight in white armor" approach. You do not have to agree that the right to free speech should be defended but if we allow someone to be attacked for their thought or statements who will defend us when it is our turn? I hope this clears up any misunderstanding and remember, it's your right to speak your mind.
Slowhand
 

slowhand

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Eckheart said:
One need not fear language, but should have have a fear of those that use with ignorance and the the lack of respect for the power it wields. When insensitivity and poor manners are intermixed, then and only then do we realize that you are truly powerless.
"use with ignorance"? The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. Okay, what's your point? Try reading the posts again.
Slowhand
 

slowhand

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Eckheart,
You may need a dictionary and perhaps spend some time with a black man or woman. The use of the N word is acceptable depending on how close the relationship is.
You stepped into this when it wasn't necessary but do try not to take things so personally.
As for reviews, I would love to see more reviews and maybe someone could explain why there are so few to read.
I am hoping to be in London soon and will post any reviews but some info ahead of time would be helpful.
Peace,
Slowhand
 

ISpentHowMuch

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Train Wreck

Damn this "train wreck" keeps getting bigger and bigger. Is it true that the larger the 'train wreck' the smaller the guys ummmm...'package' is? LOL
 
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