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I have posted this elsewhere, but want some reponses to this. While ideally I think it's great if everybody enjoys any form of sex, I didn't realize until I got on this board how much effort guys go through to please an SP. While I usually try to please a woman as my main goal in bed (so that she will then reciprocate), in 30 mins or an houir, I'd like to get right down to what I enjoy.
If for example she likes to receive oral one way, and I like to do it another...should I really care? Spending all of my time pleasing her is too much like what I do with my S.O...So why am I paying?
For ex: I met an SP one day who liked DATY. She was on her back. Once on her knees I suggested with her over me..but she wouldn't do that. I've never had a girlfriend, date, one night stand say this, so I'm thinking to myself, "Here I am paying, and being told "NO".
The reason why I don't see SPs much is that it seems like I have to be so concerned with what she enjoys...and I really feel that in this circumstance it should be mostly about ME.
 
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Satisfy your needs and ignore others styles.

Iguana;

I'm with TheFan on this issue. I too enjoy giving pleasure and the acknowlegement of that. Actually, a great part of my enjoyment comes from observing hers. I'd probably pass on a session if I am going to be denied that opportunity.

Different strokes for different folks. We are all individuals and we can not ever be the same or enjoy the same things.

You and I obviously have different needs, and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't feel obligated to conform to what others might like tpo do or receive.

We are all individuals with our own needs and desires, so you should just enjoy what you want!
 
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ashley

My main focus is on you of course since you are paying me for my time. I love Daty though but I dont ask for it lol

Ashley
 
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When I was first offered reverse I thought, "So I Pay to come here and massage you?" I have a question about that too..do you use oil/powder on the girl, or is it just assumed that you want to rub your hands around on her?
 
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Ok...

I don't ask for anything or expect anything... But I can't stand it when they do what all hobbiests hate... And this goes for men and women... Who wants a dead f***?

That is my only issue... The ones who just lay there!
 
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miranda

I'm working massage these days and totally leave it up to the client as to whether he wants to use oi/powder/nothing during a reverse.
 
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rr_bill

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You've got it right

nearlynormal;

I agree totally with your philosophy and I agree too that looking after her pleasure does pay off many times over with extra special service. I know for a fact that my repeats are actually interested in returning to visit me because of the way I treat them (and what I do for them too).

How come you may ask? Well, I know several of the local proprietors of agencies personally, and I eventually get to hear from them, the comments the girls have made to them when they are picked up after a call or when they are called to come to visit me. They actually enjoy their time with me and I do not pretend that it is because of my studly performance, because it certainly isn't. I do know that it takes two to make a session work properly and I spend a good part of my time doing what I can to "help" her enjoy our time together.
 
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La ou le plaisir n'a pas de limite...
Is it me or what every time I go for the nr they always ask me to use powder. I understand why but am i the only one?
 
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I concur with nearlynormal and rr_bill. Just treat them the way you'd want to be treated in that situation. A drink, a snack, atmosphere etc. It's amazing how much mileage you can get from these things. And it feels nice doing them. The ladies are always appreciative.

The best line I got was when one lady told me as we lay in bed at the conclusion, "You f***ed me and fed me. What more could I ask for?"
 
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