I'll be the first brave one
I think a lot of mpa's would agree on a lot of the same likes/dislikes. I am sure there are more than I can think of now, but I'll start the list....
Like : A genuine massage --- a great carress wether it be light or hard can really make my day (this also falls under the turn on category)
Like : A client who isn't afraid to tell me what is good for them. If something is to hard, too soft, to rough, too slow, too fast etc. Please tell me. I don't know how you like to be touched as each person is different. If I can make our time together better I'd really like to
Like : Someone genuinely interested in how I like to be touched, and when they find something I really like and when I say please dont stop, they dont stop. Again this falls under the turn on category as well.
Like : A clean client. It makes me want to be close to you when you smell fresh
Like : Being respected.
Like : Little surprises. I am not saying I always want gifts or presents, but sometimes a little surprise is nice. One client remembered I liked a certain type of chocolate we cant get here, and brought me back a chocolate bar from his vacation home. Things like that make a girl feel special.
Like : being complimented.
Like : A nice warm hug at the end of the session. It helps us both to show that the time the other spent with us was appreciated.
Like : offering to help me get the oil off my back in the shower
There are so many more to add.. but I'll leave some likes for others mpa's willing to add to the list.
Just to even it out, some dislikes
-Not showing up to appointments. I understand that it happens on both sides where the attendant might not be available when you arrive, but it happens so much on the other hand that unless you know someone really well you don't tend to count on an appointments. I could be turning away a great walk-in client for someone not to show up.
-Guys who don't understand what no means. If I have to say no to the same question or action more than 5 times in one session, chances are high that the level of 'fun' and willingness on my part will diminish.
-Comparing me to other girls. If I know the girl and she is nice and or has a good reputation that is fine, but hearing "well so and so does this for me, for this amount... and her body is better than yours, or her service is better than yours" and thinking that is going to get you past the service level offered won't happen. Sometimes I just want to say, "well my last client..." I don't but wonder if that would work.
-Using this or other boards thinking you're going to get more types of service. I would rather not know in advance that you are "reviewing me" so that the session could progress normally instead of being 'under pressure'. Most of the terbites I have met are wonderful people and aren't like this... but to those very few who are, please use this board as its intended. Review's should be based on experiences and not as a threat for better service.
Well, thats what I can think of for now (as you can tell its late) but I hope more attendants post, as well as clients on Ham2004's other thread, as this heightens the experience for all of us.
As for turn ons and offs, I am sure each girl is different so this is harder to answer.
for me - a nice massage, a foot massage, asking me what I like.. and doing it
, sharing your fantasys, role playing and many more that I am not sure about sharing just yet
Turn offs- someone licking my face (lol)
