Hi,
I've been lurking for a few months, but havn't yet posted. Why? Because I'm an SP and wondered if you guys would welcome another gal to your board. I've enjoyed reading all your posts, and especially those from some lovely SP's (who are absolutely inspiring to me!)
I have a question about GFE's, which is generally self-explanatory. However, I sometimes wonder if my definition is correct:
I've been a SP for almost 2 years with an agency in Toronto, which suits my schedule very well. In between a day job and school (part-time masters in a health care field) I don't have a whole lot of spare time. Thus, the agency can make all the arrangements in advance and spare me the work! Oh, yeah, did I mention that I'm a bit lazy????
Re: GFE's: I have always taken this quite literally. I think about the ex-boyfriends that I've had, and what made that different than the usual SP/Hobbyest relationship. A girlfriend is there to care, to think about you, and to know you as well as possible. She should get to know your moods, and (hopefully!) anticipate what you want. Sometimes it's a quiet dinner and snuggly time. Other times, it's an all-out celebration of your accomplishments and a bit of rowdy fun. She always remembers who you are and what your personal circumstances are - job, family, hobbies, fav restaurants, favorite naughty pastimes, etc. In short, a true GFE should make an effort to remember you as much as possible, whether you get together weekly, monthly, or only once in a while.
So, I know that I have some devoted clients who appreciate the aforementioned ideals. But is this what you guys mean by a GFE? Or, do you define a GFE by the sexual chemistry and what is allowed (and NOT allowed??)
I truly enjoy what I do, and have a genuine interest in my regular clients. Is this how it usually works (hey, I can't talk to the gals at my agency, they're usually just there to make a few bucks!) I'd love to hear from some SP's as well as hobbyists. All of you guys have impressed me with both your insight AND your antics!
C. Randall
I've been lurking for a few months, but havn't yet posted. Why? Because I'm an SP and wondered if you guys would welcome another gal to your board. I've enjoyed reading all your posts, and especially those from some lovely SP's (who are absolutely inspiring to me!)
I have a question about GFE's, which is generally self-explanatory. However, I sometimes wonder if my definition is correct:
I've been a SP for almost 2 years with an agency in Toronto, which suits my schedule very well. In between a day job and school (part-time masters in a health care field) I don't have a whole lot of spare time. Thus, the agency can make all the arrangements in advance and spare me the work! Oh, yeah, did I mention that I'm a bit lazy????
Re: GFE's: I have always taken this quite literally. I think about the ex-boyfriends that I've had, and what made that different than the usual SP/Hobbyest relationship. A girlfriend is there to care, to think about you, and to know you as well as possible. She should get to know your moods, and (hopefully!) anticipate what you want. Sometimes it's a quiet dinner and snuggly time. Other times, it's an all-out celebration of your accomplishments and a bit of rowdy fun. She always remembers who you are and what your personal circumstances are - job, family, hobbies, fav restaurants, favorite naughty pastimes, etc. In short, a true GFE should make an effort to remember you as much as possible, whether you get together weekly, monthly, or only once in a while.
So, I know that I have some devoted clients who appreciate the aforementioned ideals. But is this what you guys mean by a GFE? Or, do you define a GFE by the sexual chemistry and what is allowed (and NOT allowed??)
I truly enjoy what I do, and have a genuine interest in my regular clients. Is this how it usually works (hey, I can't talk to the gals at my agency, they're usually just there to make a few bucks!) I'd love to hear from some SP's as well as hobbyists. All of you guys have impressed me with both your insight AND your antics!
C. Randall