Ok, this is a newbie question. I was wondering if you're down or in a bad mood, does seeing a SP make you feel better?? I haven't got up the nerve yet to actually see a SP. I did setup a duo for my birthday this year and was stood up (sat in the lobby for a hour) I've just been having a real crappy year and not in a relationship of any kind and VERY sick of the dating scene. Basicly being stood up just made me feel worse, although I did get an apology and I understand these things happen, so I don't know if I should try again (newbie jitters).