I've heard some mention of massages, and giving them is my specialty. I've only done this for a small handful of clients who were very kind to me as a way of showing my kindness and offering them the fullfilment they saught that I simply couldn't give them in any sexual experience (mostly cause I was unwilling)
Any girls might find this useful since my clients REALLY enjoyed it! At the end of it all the first thing they say to me "No one's ever paid that much attention to me before!" And that's why they enjoyed it so much - they're getting that attention they lack elsewhere!
Now the first thing to keep in mind is you are truly ENDULGING their senses - and it will leave them reeling! My b/f has commented more than once that its better then sex (which has made me question my sexual abilities ) The most imporant part is the PRE - massage treatement (something I've stumbled across only recently).
The skin is the most complex organ of the body (aside from the brain of course) and every inch of it has HUNDREDS of pleasure receptors (heat and pain too lol). Now what you want to do is get them all stimulated so every inch of them is tingling - and the good part of this is it requires total self - abandonment on the part of the person giving the massage, while not being uncomfortably invasive.
Environment is a key - nothing should destract their attentions (easy to do in a hotel room) during the whole experience - not clocks, washing machines, or television sets or pets! It actually robs from the pleasure more than one might expect. Candle light is HIGH recommended (go to the dollar store!!) since it softens everything in the room (not too may candles, just enough to see, leaving everything looking soft), which relaxes and pleases the eyes. Beez Wax candles are the best because of the gentle smell and they apparently purifiy the air (good if you have alergies). Run a hot bath, bubbles if you like and jump in with them, have delicious smelling soft soap and a good had spunge (one that will conform to the shape of your hand - its important). While you are sitting up in one side of the bath, he leans against you in a comforable lying down position. The point is mostly to make sure he comes out cleaner than he's ever been before (have sea salt ready on the side of the bath tub!). It makes the stimulation more affective. Bevore even the message begins, your partner will feel very relaxed and aware of his body - and awareness makes a difference. As you clean his body, don't do it in jerky back and forth motions, use the same motions you would in a massage. Large continuous circles, and keep to a gentle rhythm - don't break it or you break the spell - even if your reachign for something you shouldn't break this rhythm. Once he's lathered up all over you can wash his hair for him (no necissary but I do it cause everyone enjoys a good gentle - though firm- scalp message). Once you've lathered him up rinse him in the same rhythm (works crage if the nozel of the shower comes off!!!)
Then go for the salt and rub it all over his body in the same way (no this isn't bad for your skin believe it or not!) A salt rub is bad if your VERY sensitive, bcause its very stimulating - though this shouldn't last longer than a minute (brief but well done) . The skin will redden a bit but don't panic that goes away - it the blood coming to the skin which works well for the massage afterward. It also acts as a tonic for the body, since its abrasive, it will do a really good job of removing skin debris and he'll have that tingly sensation. Afterwards a Quick shower (I shower with him when we do this) to rinse the body. If you do teh salt rub - check for cuts and bruises BEFORE you start!! And keep the salt in the palm of your hand it makes it easier to control than just throwing it on them lol. Just keep your hand flat and add enough pressure to keep the salt under your palm with out causing him pain or discomfort.
Any girls might find this useful since my clients REALLY enjoyed it! At the end of it all the first thing they say to me "No one's ever paid that much attention to me before!" And that's why they enjoyed it so much - they're getting that attention they lack elsewhere!
Now the first thing to keep in mind is you are truly ENDULGING their senses - and it will leave them reeling! My b/f has commented more than once that its better then sex (which has made me question my sexual abilities ) The most imporant part is the PRE - massage treatement (something I've stumbled across only recently).
The skin is the most complex organ of the body (aside from the brain of course) and every inch of it has HUNDREDS of pleasure receptors (heat and pain too lol). Now what you want to do is get them all stimulated so every inch of them is tingling - and the good part of this is it requires total self - abandonment on the part of the person giving the massage, while not being uncomfortably invasive.
Environment is a key - nothing should destract their attentions (easy to do in a hotel room) during the whole experience - not clocks, washing machines, or television sets or pets! It actually robs from the pleasure more than one might expect. Candle light is HIGH recommended (go to the dollar store!!) since it softens everything in the room (not too may candles, just enough to see, leaving everything looking soft), which relaxes and pleases the eyes. Beez Wax candles are the best because of the gentle smell and they apparently purifiy the air (good if you have alergies). Run a hot bath, bubbles if you like and jump in with them, have delicious smelling soft soap and a good had spunge (one that will conform to the shape of your hand - its important). While you are sitting up in one side of the bath, he leans against you in a comforable lying down position. The point is mostly to make sure he comes out cleaner than he's ever been before (have sea salt ready on the side of the bath tub!). It makes the stimulation more affective. Bevore even the message begins, your partner will feel very relaxed and aware of his body - and awareness makes a difference. As you clean his body, don't do it in jerky back and forth motions, use the same motions you would in a massage. Large continuous circles, and keep to a gentle rhythm - don't break it or you break the spell - even if your reachign for something you shouldn't break this rhythm. Once he's lathered up all over you can wash his hair for him (no necissary but I do it cause everyone enjoys a good gentle - though firm- scalp message). Once you've lathered him up rinse him in the same rhythm (works crage if the nozel of the shower comes off!!!)
Then go for the salt and rub it all over his body in the same way (no this isn't bad for your skin believe it or not!) A salt rub is bad if your VERY sensitive, bcause its very stimulating - though this shouldn't last longer than a minute (brief but well done) . The skin will redden a bit but don't panic that goes away - it the blood coming to the skin which works well for the massage afterward. It also acts as a tonic for the body, since its abrasive, it will do a really good job of removing skin debris and he'll have that tingly sensation. Afterwards a Quick shower (I shower with him when we do this) to rinse the body. If you do teh salt rub - check for cuts and bruises BEFORE you start!! And keep the salt in the palm of your hand it makes it easier to control than just throwing it on them lol. Just keep your hand flat and add enough pressure to keep the salt under your palm with out causing him pain or discomfort.
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