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kittykat
After reading over another thread, I thought I would provide some basic information about our 'monthly visitor'. I am thinking that most men who have lived with a woman or men with sisters would know this information already.
Some SP's will have no hesitation about working while on their period. Others have a strict policy against it. I believe that each women has the right to decide for herself her own comfort level. Of course, a client has a right to specifically request that she not visit when she has her period. That's his perogative.
It is not uncommon for a woman to experience a heightened sex drive while she has her period. I am out of control.
Please note that some women do not even get their monthly period. This could be due to any number of factors, including medication, stress or excessive weight loss.
A woman can get her period over 3 days or 7 days. I think it is common for a period to last 5 days, however, the duration varies from woman to woman.
I think it is safe to say that most women have a menstruation 'pattern'. I know that I tend to get my period at the end of the month and it lasts about five days.
Most women have a general idea when their period will start, but they may still have surprises. It can arrive while you are sleeping or while you are sitting in a movie theatre or while you are having sex.
I tend to crave red meat and salty foods before my period starts. My breasts get tender before my period and I get bloated. I can usually feel I am about to get my period, but I cannot determine the exact moment it will arrive.
Usually, the blood flow is heavy at the beginning of a period. Near the end, the flow is usually much lighter. It is not unlikely that some SP's would work with a sponge on lighter days.
Some women take the birthcontrol pill. It can makes the blood flow almost non-existent. It can shorten the duration of a period to about 1-2 days of light bleeding. It is not uncommon for SP's to work on light days.
Sometimes your period is 'over' for a few days, but may reoccur unexpectedly. For some reason, the 'reoccurence' can be 'triggered' by having sexual intercourse. So a client may ask if you have your period and you could answer truthfully "No", but suddenly discover otherwise.
It is incredibly embarrasing to have this happen when with a client. I consider myself an assertive, sexually aware woman. But on two occasions when I had an unexpected visitor while in session, I felt like dying of embarassment. I know that different women would handle the situation differently. I must confess that in neither case did I truly act with grace.
Once the client had just finished DATY when I looked at his face, I wanted to die! He was 'red-faced'. I was mortified. I quickly cleaned him up and left his apartment in a big hurry.
The other time was when I rather new to the biz. I met this guy at the Sutton Place Hotel. After we finished, he went to use the shower and I noticed a red stain on the sheets. I was so embarrassed that I took the sheet home with me to wash it. I did not want to leave it in the room. I have no idea whether he noticed the sheet went missing or whether he was billed for it.
Of course I realize that I was being silly. I should have been able to be mature about the situation. Maybe even offered another session at a reduced rate to compensate for his trouble. Instead I felt so embarrassed that I did not want to see the same gentlemen again.
Unfortunately society conditions men and women to view our periods as gross or a 'dirty little secret'. Instead, it is a natural bodily function. I admire the North American Indian belief that states that a women is at her strongest when it is her 'time'.
One more little interesting piece of information, there is truth to the 'myth' that women who live together will develop similar menstrual cycles. I have noticed that when sharing aparments with other women, we have tended to have our periods at the same time.
I would welcome a challenge, but I understood that there was no more health risks involved to hobbyists if an SP using a sponge works while on her period providing the client wears a condom for intercourse.
There's my rant for today.
XX
KK
Some SP's will have no hesitation about working while on their period. Others have a strict policy against it. I believe that each women has the right to decide for herself her own comfort level. Of course, a client has a right to specifically request that she not visit when she has her period. That's his perogative.
It is not uncommon for a woman to experience a heightened sex drive while she has her period. I am out of control.
Please note that some women do not even get their monthly period. This could be due to any number of factors, including medication, stress or excessive weight loss.
A woman can get her period over 3 days or 7 days. I think it is common for a period to last 5 days, however, the duration varies from woman to woman.
I think it is safe to say that most women have a menstruation 'pattern'. I know that I tend to get my period at the end of the month and it lasts about five days.
Most women have a general idea when their period will start, but they may still have surprises. It can arrive while you are sleeping or while you are sitting in a movie theatre or while you are having sex.
I tend to crave red meat and salty foods before my period starts. My breasts get tender before my period and I get bloated. I can usually feel I am about to get my period, but I cannot determine the exact moment it will arrive.
Usually, the blood flow is heavy at the beginning of a period. Near the end, the flow is usually much lighter. It is not unlikely that some SP's would work with a sponge on lighter days.
Some women take the birthcontrol pill. It can makes the blood flow almost non-existent. It can shorten the duration of a period to about 1-2 days of light bleeding. It is not uncommon for SP's to work on light days.
Sometimes your period is 'over' for a few days, but may reoccur unexpectedly. For some reason, the 'reoccurence' can be 'triggered' by having sexual intercourse. So a client may ask if you have your period and you could answer truthfully "No", but suddenly discover otherwise.
It is incredibly embarrasing to have this happen when with a client. I consider myself an assertive, sexually aware woman. But on two occasions when I had an unexpected visitor while in session, I felt like dying of embarassment. I know that different women would handle the situation differently. I must confess that in neither case did I truly act with grace.
Once the client had just finished DATY when I looked at his face, I wanted to die! He was 'red-faced'. I was mortified. I quickly cleaned him up and left his apartment in a big hurry.
The other time was when I rather new to the biz. I met this guy at the Sutton Place Hotel. After we finished, he went to use the shower and I noticed a red stain on the sheets. I was so embarrassed that I took the sheet home with me to wash it. I did not want to leave it in the room. I have no idea whether he noticed the sheet went missing or whether he was billed for it.
Of course I realize that I was being silly. I should have been able to be mature about the situation. Maybe even offered another session at a reduced rate to compensate for his trouble. Instead I felt so embarrassed that I did not want to see the same gentlemen again.
Unfortunately society conditions men and women to view our periods as gross or a 'dirty little secret'. Instead, it is a natural bodily function. I admire the North American Indian belief that states that a women is at her strongest when it is her 'time'.
One more little interesting piece of information, there is truth to the 'myth' that women who live together will develop similar menstrual cycles. I have noticed that when sharing aparments with other women, we have tended to have our periods at the same time.
I would welcome a challenge, but I understood that there was no more health risks involved to hobbyists if an SP using a sponge works while on her period providing the client wears a condom for intercourse.
There's my rant for today.
XX
KK