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kittykat

After reading over another thread, I thought I would provide some basic information about our 'monthly visitor'. I am thinking that most men who have lived with a woman or men with sisters would know this information already.

Some SP's will have no hesitation about working while on their period. Others have a strict policy against it. I believe that each women has the right to decide for herself her own comfort level. Of course, a client has a right to specifically request that she not visit when she has her period. That's his perogative.

It is not uncommon for a woman to experience a heightened sex drive while she has her period. I am out of control.

Please note that some women do not even get their monthly period. This could be due to any number of factors, including medication, stress or excessive weight loss.

A woman can get her period over 3 days or 7 days. I think it is common for a period to last 5 days, however, the duration varies from woman to woman.

I think it is safe to say that most women have a menstruation 'pattern'. I know that I tend to get my period at the end of the month and it lasts about five days.

Most women have a general idea when their period will start, but they may still have surprises. It can arrive while you are sleeping or while you are sitting in a movie theatre or while you are having sex.

I tend to crave red meat and salty foods before my period starts. My breasts get tender before my period and I get bloated. I can usually feel I am about to get my period, but I cannot determine the exact moment it will arrive.

Usually, the blood flow is heavy at the beginning of a period. Near the end, the flow is usually much lighter. It is not unlikely that some SP's would work with a sponge on lighter days.

Some women take the birthcontrol pill. It can makes the blood flow almost non-existent. It can shorten the duration of a period to about 1-2 days of light bleeding. It is not uncommon for SP's to work on light days.

Sometimes your period is 'over' for a few days, but may reoccur unexpectedly. For some reason, the 'reoccurence' can be 'triggered' by having sexual intercourse. So a client may ask if you have your period and you could answer truthfully "No", but suddenly discover otherwise.

It is incredibly embarrasing to have this happen when with a client. I consider myself an assertive, sexually aware woman. But on two occasions when I had an unexpected visitor while in session, I felt like dying of embarassment. I know that different women would handle the situation differently. I must confess that in neither case did I truly act with grace.

Once the client had just finished DATY when I looked at his face, I wanted to die! He was 'red-faced'. I was mortified. I quickly cleaned him up and left his apartment in a big hurry.

The other time was when I rather new to the biz. I met this guy at the Sutton Place Hotel. After we finished, he went to use the shower and I noticed a red stain on the sheets. I was so embarrassed that I took the sheet home with me to wash it. I did not want to leave it in the room. I have no idea whether he noticed the sheet went missing or whether he was billed for it.

Of course I realize that I was being silly. I should have been able to be mature about the situation. Maybe even offered another session at a reduced rate to compensate for his trouble. Instead I felt so embarrassed that I did not want to see the same gentlemen again.

Unfortunately society conditions men and women to view our periods as gross or a 'dirty little secret'. Instead, it is a natural bodily function. I admire the North American Indian belief that states that a women is at her strongest when it is her 'time'.

One more little interesting piece of information, there is truth to the 'myth' that women who live together will develop similar menstrual cycles. I have noticed that when sharing aparments with other women, we have tended to have our periods at the same time.

I would welcome a challenge, but I understood that there was no more health risks involved to hobbyists if an SP using a sponge works while on her period providing the client wears a condom for intercourse.

There's my rant for today.

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KK
 

Jenn_angel

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Well put!

As far as unexpected occurances... I will admit that I am the subject of at least one post on it... No this does not mean it happened with more then one person... It simply means that they may have posted more then once in the couple of threads on this.

I personally have a really hard to guage cycle... Anywhere from 1-7 days, with a variation of 5 possible days for a start date...

This get to be really difficult... But I have a system... I simply say that I am booked... Or not available that night... No this does not mean that everytime I say those things this is the case... But I find it easier to deal with it that way... I am just to quiet about those things to ever say it in public...

That is my input on this...

Once again... As I know he will most likely read this at some point... I am sooooooo sorry... But then you know that already.
 

Jenn_angel

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umm...

I think I'll stick to saying I am booked thanks. No offence... I just can't say it to someone I don't know... Now a regular... That is different... But a new client... I am just booked that day... Therefor they have no idea... They just think I am really hard to book or give up... Hey not my fault... And yes I realise it would probably save some time and trouble for myself... But hey... I am just not comfortable discussing certain things with people I don't know.
 

rr_bill

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Re: SP's working while on thier period

kittykat said:
After reading over another thread, I thought I would provide some basic information about our 'monthly visitor'. I am thinking that most men who have lived with a woman or men with sisters would know this information already.

Some SP's will have no hesitation about working while on their period. Others have a strict policy against it. I believe that each women has the right to decide for herself her own comfort level. Of course, a client has a right to specifically request that she not visit when she has her period. That's his perogative.........
kittykat, you may have already read my thoughts about this, as I've posted on "other" threads which you may have read. There as a client, I had made some comments and I'll reiterate the same general ideas here for those who may be new. I grew up with several sisters and was married for many years, so I am completely aware of the foibles and the variations of Mother Nature.

Men who become incensed about this are being rather unfair to the girls IMO, in their condemnation of an "event" which neither they nor the girls care for. It is not the "event" itself which should be troublesome to a client, but the attitude of some girls/agencies.

Where a girl you are expecting, happens to be working on "those" days, you will find that there are two categories of girls. There are those who deliberately chose so to work and there are those who find that the dreaded "day" has caught them unexpectedly, and sometimes most unfortunately, in the middle of a call.

Those girls who deliberately chose to work at this time are of two types:
1. - those who sometimes, with the assistance of a disreutable agency, conspire to deceive the client.
2. - those who are up-front with the information on booking.

As a client I am always quite angered when an SP of the first type shows up at my door and then tells me, because it is something that I do not care to partake of. If I am told about this ahead of time, I will decline and either wait until another day or book another girl.

When the "day" occurs accidentally, that of course is a completely different matter. As kittykat has mentioned above, its appearance in the middle of a session may very well have been brought about by the very thing that you two are doing! It is wrong to become angry with her because in many cases it is something over which she had no control. Some girls are as regular as the moon but others are not.

It is a fact of life, and it happens to every girl, SP or not, and often when totally unexpected. As far as I am concerned, where this situation occurs, a simple "I'm sorry" is all that is necessary. It is not the end of the world and I'd hope that most considerate men would be able to accept that.

My only concern re: "those days" is that I am not informed of the situation when it is known to the SP or agency, at the time of booking or arrival.
 

Jenn_angel

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um...

That depends on the quality of the man whom she sees doesn't it...

As far as my earlier response... I am in actaullity a slightly shy person about private matters, and although I am very outgoing about some things... This topic is not one of them. I guess it is mainly because of how I was raised... I think I accurately use the expressions "Sweet and discreet" in one of my ad's... And I was not the one to coin myself with that...
 

rr_bill

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Dr. Wanker said:
I don't think anybody would hold it against the girl if it showed up unexpectedly.
I have read of such cases where there were nasty comments made, but then of course those were not knowledgeable or considerate and to boot probably not gentlemen either.

Something I should add to my previous post - I feel that, should this happen to a girl, she should not be overcome with remorse to the point where she does not want to see the gentleman again simply because of this "accident". I agree with you Doc. W. that the majority of men will accept the accidental version without difficulty.

Now if, as it was suggested by kittykat, that she might have considered offering a bonus on the next call that would have been really super, but in my own case I would not have expected anything extra, because it should have been considered as an unfortuate and unavoidable occurance, nothing more, and therefore IMO she was completely blameless.

I've had it happen to me on more than one occasion and neither of us knew until withdrawal and what a mess there was. The bed had to be stripped (mattress pad too) and an emergent washing done. The next week though, the same girl was back in that same bed.
 
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wildone99

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surprise visitor! kitty kat

Yes this little visitor showed up on me one time the girl was on top and very into it and seemed very horny and we had a great time but i had a very red private area and she didn't realize she had had her period again and was embarrassed but it was one of best sessions ever!t !It was not planned that's for sure!
 

Jenn_angel

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Now I am blushing...

I am pretty sure it was not me but that almost discribes the session to a T... The reason I am pretty sure is due to a knowledge of their username on here...
 
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kittykat

One more.

I am assuming that the only people who are still reading this thread are interested in the topic enough to want a little more information.

With respect to girls who knowingly work while on their period, here is a secret of the trade. Some sp's will use 'sponges' when on their lighter days. If the women uses a 'sea sponge', it is unlikely that you would feel the difference. It is unlikely that there would any bleeding on you.

Of course, it is obvious when the girl uses a tampon!

My only other comment involves a slight concern for the sp's who work for an agency. They may feel pressure to work that the indy's do not face. There are some agencies that really make life difficult for girls who book off at the last minute because of their 'visitor'. I have seen girls pressured to see regular clients who have booked in advance. In some cases, it may be easier for the girl to simply go through with the call, rather than face repercussions frm the agency.

Kittykat
 

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kittykat said:

It is not uncommon for a woman to experience a heightened sex drive while she has her period. I am out of control.
KK
And you sure not are the only one, that does have a higher sex drive during that period.

Yes, it also did happen to me, that I have seen a SP, and notice that she was having her period, and I don’t care. I will not perform oral sex on a lady, but I really don’t mind having sex with her, in fact with girlfriends or ex girlfriends some of them was willing to some don’t, in fact it is not a case of willing or not, it is a personal choice for them, and knowing that it does not bother me, many of them was choosing to, but yes I will tend to say, that they are on a high drive, and I like speed …

So yes, if a SP was telling me that she was into it, and giving me the choice to cancel or not, I am not sure what I would choose, may be it would depends on how I am feeling, and what kind of service I was looking for.

Oh my god I already see the flame coming down on me lolllll
 

Jenn_angel

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Hey...

If I ever get over my own issues... Who ever the man is... He is in for the ride of his life... I am the worst for being out of control at that time... You can generally spot me going into strip bars... LOL

Yes I know... I am such a bad girl... mmmmmmmm
 

WhaWhaWha

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Cindy said:
... I say stay home, read a book, or chat on Terb.
But the girls in the commercials ride bikes, climb mountains, and go swimming. All while wearing their whitest clothes. You're missing all the fun Cindy!!

Speaking as a man who has earned his red wings, in as much seriousness as I can muster, I need to say a few things here.

1. Humans have become far too squeamish. The price of civilization and domestication I suppose.
2. Menstruation is not a big deal to some men. You should feel comfortable asking. Men should be at ease answering.
3. The miracles of modern laundry and bath soap is more than a match for any mishap.

I've been with partners who have unexpectedly burped, farted, peed, sneezed, etc... you name it. All hilarious and easily dismissed as nothing. So why is this treated any differently?

In fact my ex wife broke her water at Thanksgiving dinner. And on my moms good dining room set fergoodnesssake. Our daughter is almost 12 now, and Mom still uses the same set with pride.

Cheers
Wha
 
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kittykat

One more myth

Oh, yeah.

I thought I would dispel one more myth.

There is a certain time of the month that women do not go horseback riding on the beach in long, flowing white outfits!

Geesh.

I hate those ridiculous commercials!

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WhaWhaWha

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MHO

Dr. Wanker said:
And you still EAT off it????
No, we do not eat off the chairs.
OK we do but not when Mom is home.

Cheers,
Wha
 

Bearlythere

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Most of the women I have been with are TIGERs during ...

Well, although DATY is NOT an option...I find the sex I have had with women during the visit has been outstanding. Unhibited and usually raunchy...just need a couple of dark coloured old towels to lay on...Having said that. That was with women I was having a relationship with. I don't know if a woman working as an SP would be be the same for me or not. Maybe...I will say that Jenn saying she is out of control during the period is a turn on!!!..lol:D
 

Kayla

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I always used...

.. a diaphram.. never a sponge.. but then I am allergic to spermicide. A diaphram works great.. even said to prevent some diseases.. the only problem with the diaphram is that it keeps everything in.. including a woman's natural lubricant.. so on my period.. I would use lubrication.
 

Avery

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I can only recall two encounters with SP’s during their periods.

The first happened about 15 years ago in Calgary. Just after finishing, I withdrew, and a gusher of blood ran onto the sheet. The escort was far more embarrassed and upset than I was. She apologized profusely, saying that her period was a couple of days early. I told her not to worry about it, that accidents happen. Fortunately, my hotel room had two beds, so I slept in the other one and covered the bloodstained one before I checked out the next morning.

But, I wonder if these “accidents” usually happen because the ladies push their luck a little. If her period is a couple of days late rather than early, should she continue to see clients until it actually starts, quite possibly during sex? I can’t answer that definitively, but my inclination is to say “no”. What do the ladies think about that?

The second incident was far worse. I was about to perform DATY on a Winnipeg incall SP I had seen before, when I noticed a strange odour that made me hesitate a little. It wasn’t a gross, unclean odour, just a strange one, at least to my nostrils. I spotted what looked like a solitary white hair in her reddish bush. At the precise instant that my brain registered the message “tampon string”, she said, “Clit only, please. It’s my period”. I wanted to say, “What do you think I am, a f**king vampire?” but I just declined brusquely, and told her to give me a BJ instead. I was totally pissed off at her lack of respect for me, so I never returned.

On a more positive note, another Winnipeg incall SP once declined DATY, saying, “I love it, but my period just finished yesterday, and I would be terribly embarrassed if you tasted anything nasty, so, if you don’t mind, let’s leave that until next time”. Needless to say, there were several “next times” with her.
 
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