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Sex after marriage poll.

Has your wife's interest in oral sex and sex in general changed since marriage?

  • My wife's interest in sex has increased since marriage!

    Votes: 9 10.5%
  • My wife's interest in sex has stayed the same since marriage.

    Votes: 14 16.3%
  • It's only her interest in giving oral which has declined

    Votes: 2 2.3%
  • Her interest in all sex has declined somewhat since marriage.

    Votes: 17 19.8%
  • Her interest in all sex has declined dramatically since marriage.

    Votes: 44 51.2%

  • Total voters
    86

Cave Carson

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Down there....
My wives and oral sex poll has raised a companion question. Have you married fellows found that your wife's interest in sex of any kind has decreased since you got married? I'll leave it up to the individual participant to adjust my inquiry for the impact of a couple's age on their level of sexual activity if he feels this is an important consideration in his specific case. Once again, the discussion is open to all but only married men should actually vote.
 
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fasner

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Whoever clicked the "My wife's interest in sex has increased since marriage!" option needs to tell us his secret.

:confused:
 

yeet

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The results are not that bad. 23 claim 'significant decline', but the others grouped together (19) are merely a 'somewhat decline' or better. :)
 

Meister

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Can you imagine if all the wives would just all of the sudden love sex again? The whole Adult industry would collapse, thousands of sex workers would join the unemployed, terb would turn into a gay porn forum
 

johnhenrygalt

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Meister said:
Can you imagine if all the wives would just all of the sudden love sex again? The whole Adult industry would collapse, thousands of sex workers would join the unemployed, terb would turn into a gay porn forum
Do you think so? My wife loves sex, loves oral and even swallows. But even if you are getting action every night, do you want to bang the same girl for the next 30, 40 or 50 years? Never see another girl dance naked for you? Never touch another breast? The sex industry allows this without the bullshit of a messy emotional affair.

And don't tell me that wives have just lost all interest in sex and dick. From time to time she probably just wants a different dick in her mouth and a different tongue in her pussy
 

Kurt

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Somewhere between here and there
Variety

I agree with JHG.

My ex's sex drive tanked after our second child and repeated attemps at her talking to her Dr. we ignored. I never hobbied but start extra marital affairs.

Now my current GF loves sex and her passion for trying different things has grown. Threesome group sex etc. Now on occasion I still like to see sp for variety.

Now I know many woman who are on the reverse they want sex their husbands don't but I doubt they are on terb.

My ex and I went to a weekend marriage retreat and a sex therapist said that their is never a balance between for both parties to be satisfied but both parties should talk about their needs and desires. My ex disagreed.

Kurt
 

Bud Plug

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I think it's "normal" (meaning common) for both spouses to lose interest in sex with each other after a while.

Many societies accept that it is ok to have a mistress or even multiple wives. Since usually there are good reasons to remain married even after the sex is gone, and since it's inevitable that anyone in these circumstances (male or female) with a sex drive will seek out satisfaction in other relationships eventually, it would do a lot of people a lot of good if society allowed everyone to be more open and honest about it. Why should an affair or hobbying necessarily trigger the end of a marriage?

The problem is the secrecy and deceit. While necessary in our society (even wives who "know" what's going on prefer you to be discreet about it), it undermines our other relationships/hobbying. North Americans have really not grown that far from their Puritanical roots.

Really, marriage should be for a fixed term (renewable) with pre-defined consequences on non-renewal. That way, there'd be less hard feelings, less of a shock to the finances, less impact on the kids, and the opportunity to explore many wonderful relationships in a lifetime.

I should add that I think "my wife's interest in sex has declined" is an oversimplification of what usually happens. Once kids arrive: 1) the woman usually focusses most of her attention on the kids, thereby making her relationship with her husband secondary, 2) she then usually loses her looks, and or gains weight as the kids grow up, and 3) she then, after the kids are grown, wants to have sex again (like nothing happened!) but by then the husband is so used to going without (or has an affair, or hobbies) and resentful of what happened for the last 15 years, that he's not inclined to have sex with her. As a result, I think the majority of marriages over 20 years are virtually sexless.
 

stang

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A man came home from work, sat down in his favorite chair, turned on the TV, and said to his wife, "Quick, bring me a beer before it starts."
She looked a little puzzled, but brought him a beer.
When he finished it, he said, "Quick, bring me another beer. It's gonna start."
This time she looked a little angry, but brought him a beer. When it was gone, he said, "Quick, another beer, it's gonna start any second."
"That's it!" She blows her top, "You bastard! You waltz in here, flop your fat ass down, don't even say hello to me and then expect me to run around like your slave. Don't you realize that I cook and clean and wash and iron all day long?"
The husband sighed. "Oh shit, it's started".
 

DAMON789

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Its declined slowley over the years. Oral seems to be out of the picture these days, hence thats why i seek out good oral sp's. Sex is still great when i do get it, its just not often enough for my liking.
 

Meister

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Stang, that's funny.

LISA could never get her husband to do anything around the house. James would come home from work, sit in front of the TV, eat dinner, and sit some more--would never do those little household repairs that most husbands take care of. This frustrated Lisa quite a bit.

One day, the toilet stopped up. When James got home, she said sweetly, "Honey, the toilet is clogged. Would you look at it?" Her husband snarled, "What do I look like? The Tidy-Bowl Man?" and sat down on the sofa.

The next day, the garbage disposal wouldn't work. When James got home, she said, very nicely, "Honey, the disposal won't work. Would you try to fix it for me?" Once again, he growled, " What do I look like? Mr. Plumber?"

The next day, the washing machine was on the blink. When her husband got home, Lisa steeled her courage and said, "Honey, the washer isn't running. Would you check it?" And again, she was met with a snarl, " What do I look like? The Maytag Repairman?"

Finally, she had had enough. The next morning, Lisa called three repairmen to fix the toilet, the garbage disposal, and the washer. When her husband got home, she said, "Honey, I had the repairmen out today." He frowned, "Well, how much is that going to cost?" "Well honey, they all said I could pay them by baking them a cake, or having sex with them." "Well, what kind of cakes did you bake them?" he asked. She smiled, and says: "What do I look like? Betty Crocker?"

Another one:

A woman is in a coma. Nurses are in her room giving her a sponge bath. One of them is washing her "private area" and notices that there is a response on the monitor when she's touched there.

So they go to her husband and explain what happened, telling him, "Crazy as this sounds, maybe a little oral sex will do the trick and bring her out of the coma."

The husband is skeptical, but they assure him that they'll close the curtains for privacy. Anything is worth a try, the husband thinks so he finally agrees and goes into his wife's room.

After a few minutes the woman's monitor shows a flatline...no pulse...no heart rate. The nurses run into the room.

The husband is standing there, pulling up his pants, says "I think she choked."

And if you are not totally bored yet:
One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "WHAT? What was that?" So she says the words that every husband on the planet dreads to hear...

"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at Neiman Marcus.

I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take so I told her we'd just buy them all.

She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit.

We went on to the jewelry dept. where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you...she was so excited.

She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey."

She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, I think this is all dear, lets go to the cashier".

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it." Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled "WHAT? "

I then said "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile...You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I won't be having sex again until sometime after pigs fly over a frozen hell while monkeys fly out of her butt.
 
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