This ties in with Prodigal's thread....
I just finished listening to an interview that deals in part with a book called The Myth of Monogamy The interviewer (female) asked the guest (male) why he desired to have multiple sexual liasons with various partners.
He response was along the lines of:I'll spell it out for you. M-A-N
The basic premise is that infidelity is endemic to all males, since we are predisposed biologically to procreate with as many different females as possible.
The gentleman is against marriage as an institution, since men as he puts it, cannot be faithful to just one woman for the rest of their lives for the aforementioned reasons. His solution is to maintain an open relationship with a steady partner that would still allow him to bed down an assortment of other ladies.
In terms of this hobby, I am sure most of us have met an SP who embodies the term GFE. Technically, then, she provides all that we seek in an encounter. However, how many hobbiests can honestly say that they have limited their activities to just one such lady?? My guess is very few, if any.
Even after spending time with a gfe, I still have the desire to meet new ladies on a regular basis in the interests of variety. Therefore, I concur with the gentleman's assessment of the situation. "Faithfulness" in a relationship seems to be built more on maintaining the status quo in terms of family dynamics etc. than on an inate desire to do so.
Food for Thought.....
I just finished listening to an interview that deals in part with a book called The Myth of Monogamy The interviewer (female) asked the guest (male) why he desired to have multiple sexual liasons with various partners.
He response was along the lines of:I'll spell it out for you. M-A-N
The basic premise is that infidelity is endemic to all males, since we are predisposed biologically to procreate with as many different females as possible.
The gentleman is against marriage as an institution, since men as he puts it, cannot be faithful to just one woman for the rest of their lives for the aforementioned reasons. His solution is to maintain an open relationship with a steady partner that would still allow him to bed down an assortment of other ladies.
In terms of this hobby, I am sure most of us have met an SP who embodies the term GFE. Technically, then, she provides all that we seek in an encounter. However, how many hobbiests can honestly say that they have limited their activities to just one such lady?? My guess is very few, if any.
Even after spending time with a gfe, I still have the desire to meet new ladies on a regular basis in the interests of variety. Therefore, I concur with the gentleman's assessment of the situation. "Faithfulness" in a relationship seems to be built more on maintaining the status quo in terms of family dynamics etc. than on an inate desire to do so.
Food for Thought.....