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TFG5

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Yes a bit embarrassing but its something Id like some input on or a solution too.

Premature Ejaculation.

My confidence is low cause this always seems to dog me.

Usually less than a minute in intercourse, sometimes just light touching launches the rockets and ruins the mood.

In the right circumstance I can recover and have an enjoyable time 2 or 3 + given time.

Any ideas? Is there a drug? some technique? Is there something wrong with me, it seems like some guys have total control from the posts ive read here. I try not to dwell on this short cuming I know its probably phsychological.

Yes I ve prepared myself before hand on occassion, done alot of foreplay on her, etc, but its just disheartening.
 

Sasha Jones

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Really Retired.....REALLY!
If you can recover and go for more I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just get the first one out of the way, don't worry and enjoy the rest!
Just be sure the ladies you visit allow for more than one shot, and before the activites begin let them know that you are quite quick the first time. But after that you can get right back up for more.
And finally, don't be embarrassed. :)
 

pool

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TFG5 - Enjoy it while you can ! I don't know how old you are but as you age you will without a doubt last longer.

I would think the extra foreplay would just compound the situation, though.

Pleasuring yourself before hand should work and there's nothing wrong with it. Everyones different and I'm sure it's more common than you think.

There is a technique in which you pinch the base of your penis before you come, but it takes practice.

Anyway, just keep practicing. You'll figure it out.

Good luck !

PS Don't phone Sue Johansen. I'm constanly amazed at some of the useless advice she gives out, without considering all the facts. A recent example was when she told a girl ,who claimed she felt pain in her clitorious when touched. Sue told her to try using novocaine ( I think ) to numb the sensation. WTF Couldn't it just be that she's very sensitive and misinterpreting the sensation as pain.
 
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Willywants

Used To Be There!

Years of training by the wife turned me into a virtual rabbit!
"Are you done yet?" "Could you hurry please, I have shopping to do!" etc, etc, etc!

It took a little extra marital experience to get over the rabbit thing!
One lady friend had the delaying technique down pat! The pinch works! However, if in the act of intercourse, it's awkward to withdraw, pinch and reenter!
There is no question that an experienced lady, if she knows where and how, can delay your orgasm until you cry for release!
Those are ceiling shots, and are the most intense I think I have ever experienced!
Share your problem with the lady, engage in foreplay sufficient to satisfy her, (daty/digits, if allowed) and then have her practice the delay routine before intercourse, stimulating you with a BJ or HJ! Once you reach that magic moment, let her know and make entry for the finale!
All, of course, should be covered and safe! If the lady is into BBBJ, you may just have to let go externally rather than take the aggravating time to put a cover on for FS!
If your powers of recovery are good, you should be able to enjoy slower paced FS for your second SOG!

The big question is, how many SP's really know how to delay a man's orgasm??

Willywants (to go slow and easy now! Wouldn't want to have a heart attack in the company of a lady!)
 

Jenn_angel

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I must let you know...

The first time being a bit quick is extreamly likely... Especially if your excitement is high... I know this and realised a long time ago the the woman should take it as a compliment when it happens in some cases... Now on the other hand... Like you were told... Do the work... get her there... and she will be happy no matter what...

As far as MSOG... most SP's will list that in their rules if it is allowed...

Hope you have fun in your hobby...

Oh and BTW... there is a place where firm but light preasure can ba applied near the base and gently pinching the tip works as well... It may take a few tries(If this is a regular girl) untill she gets to know and read your body... Try the Joy of Sex(I think there was someting in that...) or even... Medical books for at home... Those self diagnosis ones usually have it in there... Some of them even have pictures.
 

Thorson

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MSOG

Here is a thought.

You pay for an hour session. You have a little problem with a quick shot. After 10 min from the time she walks in the door your done.

So if she doesn't allow MSOG you've either paid for 50 min of chatting with someone. I personally like to spend some time talking and getting to know the person but 85% of the session seems a bit much. I don't think MSOG should be something an SP lists if she allows. I think if an SP is concerned with not allowing a client more than one shot she should specifiy she does not allow it.

I have always been amazed at the contradiction in this business.
You pay for the time not the act (thats what the ads say).
But once the act is done thats it???

I want to make clear that I am not obsessed with MSOG I just think the number of shots you take should have nothing to do with it. The act of making love/having sex/doing the wild thing is not just about shotting. So why are SPs and clients alike so concerned with it.

Please note: there are many SPs who are not concerned with how many shots you take and just want a client to have a good time. Please don't take this comment to be a generalization of all SPs.

One last note: I am also not suggesting that an SP should spend the entire session working on as many shots as possible. The real point hear is who cares how many occur as long as both people enjoy themselves.

Just my opinion
 

pool

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The muddle of the puddle .

Il Ventilatore et al,

pool is but a mere puddle, just trying to muddle his way through constantly swimming thoughts. Now if we can only solve this muddle of the puddle. It is a bit of a befuddle ...

That should have read: Enjoy it while you can ! I don't know how old you are but as you age you will most likely last longer ;)

When I was younger, I had "subliminal" ejaculations, but only with certain girls. Now that I'm older it can range from anything between 5 minutes and a few hours depending on compatibility and other variables.

Like in any relationship, sometimes these problems can be worked out, once you get to know each others triggers. I would presume that finding an SP/MPA that is compatible to your needs and to work up a rapport may help eleviate the situation.

So on one end of the spectrum we have those who last too long and the other end are those who, can't last long enough; at least in their personal view. I tend to lean toward the former category these days, which can be a problem. Funnily enough my favorite MPA was not actually very compatible with me in that respect. I don't really worry too much about it though. A sexual experience is so much more than a males ability to perform.

Anyway, there was this one MPA that I saw a few years back. The place was unlicensed. She barely talked, wasn't very charismatic but for some reason I couldn't last more than a few seconds after contact. Talk about hair trigger. Her technique wasn't especially good but there was obviously something she was doing during the session that was triggering my senses to an elevated height. I tend to think it was something to do with the "teasing factor" In those days, I was not aware of the extent of "extras" nevermind SOG. So I would take nude but she would leave her clothes on during the initial massage. She always wore a skirt, would straddle my back during the massage and ever so lightly brush her crotch against my butt only to retreat once again. That coupled with some very light teasing in the male A spot region and her exotic looks, is what I think did the trick. And in my case, believe me, when I say it is a "trick" Maybe her personality played a part as well. You know, the ol' dragon lady/ice princess syndrome.

Anyhow, I tried everything to attempt and prepare myself for this girl, and I mean everything ! Short of using novocaine, that is.
I'd pace up and down outside trying to psych myself up. Eventually I just gave up, but I have to admit although the climax was short I enjoyed the build up and would have gone back to see her once in a while if she was still around. My perspective on the whole thing has changed considerably since those days.

So what's my point ? I have no clue. I was getting to into the moment. Hmmm. Oh yeah, I think my point was that the climax is not the most important part. If we put too much emphasis on our ability to perform it distracts from the experience. After all, in the case of MPA's/ SP's they have usually seen it all.

I think societies emphasis on a males ability to perform may be a bit of a facade. If only society in general could be as open about these things as we are in the board communities, it would take away a lot of pressure. Of course there is the factor of the male feeling he is getting less than the full experience, but even that can be an illusion created by society.

Update : I just realized that Thorson made some similar points. Oh well, it was fun reminiscing. Good points ! *s*
 
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