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Russian Brides - Documentary

james t kirk

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Kind of hand in hand with the Russian Brides thread on here, i caught a doc the other night on life about Russian Brides.

The show follows a bunch of guys from the states who make the pilgrimage to Russia to find the perfect woman.

At times, it was painfull to watch frankly.

First guy was a postal worker from detroit who hadn't had a date in 10 years and never really had a steady girlfriend. In one respect your heart goes out to the guy, he was kind of this short chunkie average white dude.

The other guy, was this meglomaniac from California with a older convertable mustang and a cookie cutter house in the burbs. At first he seemed kind of normal, but then he starts spouting off about how N. American women are all selfish self centered creatures who don't know how to take care of their man. This guy went on and on and on about it. In one clip, he is driving down the road talking about how it was important that his wife maintain her looks and should she let them go, it would be the siberian express for her. He brought this chick back from Ukraine and married her within 3 days.

The other guy was some redneck who went on about how he basically was only attracted to young slim, really beautiful hard bodies. Meanwhile, this guy is trailer park trash himself. He brought some woman back from Moscow and she split and went home after 1 month with him, good ridence. Apparently she said that he would go out every night with his friends and expect to come home to her, ready willing and able to put out.

Of all these guys, i only kind of (marginally) felt for the postal worker. Even he was pathetic though. They were all older, and none would have been considered attractive in a conventional sense.

It was unbelieveable to watch.

None of these women spoke english, and none of these guys spoke russian. It was like a comedy or something. They were carrying out small talk using translators.

The documentary was british and had a slight slant to it - the men were goofs basically.

It never really got very much into the success rates of these marriages or not though, too bad.

The funniest thing though was that all the russian women thought these american goof balls were all rich. They all agreed on that fact. I didn't get that impression at all. I think these women were going to be in for a rude awakening.

Anyway, it was interesting to watch these guys.
 

easyrider

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Ticket Out

It's a ticket out for these women. They figure it all out after two months or so in North America and ditch these losers. They start behaving just like North American women -- surprise, surprise -- and who can blame them. North American women are more interesting. They want a mate not a master . . and there are bad ones everywhere.

This story keep being done over and over. I guess people find it fascinating.
 

McMac

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An Update

My 'farmer" friend has decided against following through with this and actually has started seeing a very nice country gal.

Canada - 1
Russia - 0
 

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The Dinner Date with the Rooskie Gal

How many of us will you run over to get there on time?:D

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Dr69

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johnny56 said:
There is one I found who is smart, beautiful, thin, good family, loves animals, sexy... I'll stop before someone pukes. I have a dinner date with her Wednesday. Life is good.
Yeah, but she is a stripper. Before anyybody jumps all over me and says that strippers are people too, let me qualify. I would date one, but I wouldn't marry one. Most strippers have a particular mindset. And it is not one I would want in a wife. Besides, I wouldn't want to marry a woman that has been mauled by hundreds or even thousands of guys. The women that do this job know the sacrifices they make. But, I am not willing to make those along with her.

Oh and has for her being so smart that she found her way here on her own...uhhh.. it doesn't take too much brain power to figure out as a woman, that if you take your clothes off, you can get what you want. It is desperation that brings them here as strippers, not any superior intellect.
 

Dr69

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Johnny, I am not trying to bring you down. I am just saying that you shouldn't get too emotionally involved with this girl. Yeah, strippers are great fun as long as you keep it to casual dating.
And come on, don't fall for that stripper junk about how tough their job is etc... They work a few hours a day and can rake in a few hundred bucks a day if they are good. It is classic stripper talk to reel you in. Stripping is an easy way out for them. You are making them out to be such noble creatures. Think with your head, the one with your brain it.. !
 

Don

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Johnny56, I gotta agree w/Dr69 on this one. I once had a relationship with a dancer and what made it easier was that we made it clear that it would not be a serious thing off the bat so I just had fun with it. Anyway, yes she admitted that sometimes it is rough to strip with men pawing you and she used to drink often before she works to help her get through the night but she said that it is sure easier raking in the cash working just weekends instead of having to work for someone at $9/HR full time. I've seen some very cute ladies behind the cash register at Tim Hortons or serving drinks at a bar who could be making much more dancing. Many of these ladies are also 'courageous" by sticking to a harder job when they could be dancing and taking the easy way out.

The courage strippers have is that they are not bashful about their bodies otherwise it would take real courage to strip. But the lure of big bucks helps overcome that fear real fast.

Yes there are some ladies who come here with pressure to send much money home and without skills to earn that kind of money not dancing but then perhaps the not so attractive woman in the same situation who has no choice but to earn whatever little she can to feed her family has even more courage.

Anyway I've met some really nice genuine dancers. Good luck with the date. But be careful. I had this one girl who came on to me and the gave me some of the most mindblowing lapdances right off the bat and was really intimate and kept saying she was so turned on. Then she kept saying she wanted to get to know me outside what she does and I was hooked! I thought it would be that same situation I had with my first dancer "girlfriend". That is until a few dates later, she approached me with a situation where she said she could use some extra $ to help her through a rough stretch. Luckly for me I was strong enough to say that I can't do that and I haven't really heard from her since, nor do I want to.
 
So how does honest nice guy find a Russian or similar women to date possibly seriously. Are their agencies for this or have to find yourself. I would be possibly open but she would have to be open minded to sexwork, or swinging/polyamory. I would prefer no kids and that she as some skill to earn for herself not just be housewoemn. Biggest problem I would seek her to have great Englishll, intelligent, attractive and with probably no chidren unless perhaps older.

The Russion girls that are SP in Toronto...I keep thinking they are being taken advantage of and controlled by some mafia connections but I do not know if this is ture or not.

I have thougth of taking Russian trip to meet women, but my interests are so specific and not the usual just wife and family that I doubt if would be worthwhile. Perfer younger women with the same open sexual ideas we share here.

I think it is much harder to get them into the U.S. for any long time than it is in Canada. Almost have to marry them I believe to get them to the U.S.
 

McMac

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Dave,

There is an earlier thread called Russian Brides that should answer those questions for you. I posted on behalf of a buddy who was looking, but after some investigation has decided to pursue a good Canadian lass.

McMac
 

Don

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Dave, I'm sure there are some nice legit girls out there but what you are asking for is quite a lot. Usually the best of the ones that work out are the sincere and honest girls who really just wants to marry a good man and provider. They may not have any kids and are young and even attractive but often have family they want to provide for back home and want to get a skill and job quickly so they can work hard and send it back to the family (at least they are willing to work for themselves). These are the ladies that often work out the best. The ones that are too good to be true (young, hot, no kids or dependants (including family back home), just wants to be a good "old fashioned" housewife) often are.

The most sincere women which has the best success rate are around mid-30s+ in age with a kid or two. Percentages seem to indicate that they are the ones most interested in really sticking with a good man. Another reason for the success is that the men who are willing to go for these older women w/"baggage" is that the men are just looking for a good relationship and want to get settled down instead of looking for a hot young sexpot to come home to.

Obviously the catagory with the least success rate is w/men looking for the young girls 18-25 who have 20+ years on the girl.

I had a buddy who's older brother brought home a 22 yr old hottie from Ukraine. After a year, she ended up dumping him for a new boyfriend she met here who was closer to her age (30) and is a fitness trainer. We tried to convince him that it was a long shot but he said that even though she was young, she was old-fashioned and just wanted a nice older mature man who can provide for her and who would never leave her. Whether she was sincere and then melted to temptation once she got here, or if she was never sincere i'll never know but all I do know is that after seeing that situation my feeling that this is a bad idea got even stronger. Remember, over in her country, you may be a big shot with your western dollars and US/Canadian citizenship, but once she gets here and gets some freedom, she got a lot of other choices and often most of the time, the "choices" are coming after her.

Just be careful
 
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