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Teddybear

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With the rash of other emotionally sharing threads lately, i felt enough trust and closeness to share something that isn't eating me up inside: i haven't fallen in love with any sp's that i've had great times with. or any mpa's that i've seen. or the friendly people at my gym. or any of my staff at work. in fact, i find that i've not been falling in love with any of the smart, funny, or sexy professionals that cross my path in one shape or form every day. sometimes a friendly comradery develops. sometimes i even find myself looking forward to the next time we bump into each other in a friendly business environment. but i just can't seem to help not falling head over heels for them. or my dry cleaner. or my favorite bartender at the duke.

what should i do?*
* please understand that, if you respond, chances are i won't fall in love with you either...i'm cursed, i guess.:(
 
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Willywants

Aaawww!!

Poor Teddy!

You need to find an SP who will hold you close to her breast and pull out your stuffing!

Willywants (to see Teddybear's reaction to some of the new ladies coming on Feb. 28!)
 
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sweetdiane

lmao...

touche tb. Haven't had such a good laugh for awhile.

I haven't fallen for anyone in a whole 3 months (and don't plan to) what will I do??!!

Don't change, and don't let anyone pull your stuffing out!!

Diane. ;)
 

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TeadyBear Hugs Contest

TeddyBear ... I have the answer for you! At the next TERBites gathering ALL the ladies will give you one grand TeddyBear Hug! First each one individually, then one big group hug. Your bound to 'fall' for one if not all. The winner gets a TeddyBear!
 
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Teddybear

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oh, sophia....

you know those words have NEVER passed my lips, or my fingertips as they hit the keyboard...you'll have to settle for the other parts of my body ;)
 

sexysophia

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No you have never said them ....nor l expect you to ...l want what you have every inch and more.....smiles wicked ones
 

schizoid

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sweet dreams

i haven't fallen in love with any sp's that i've had great times with. or any mpa's that i've seen... or my favorite bartender
You've never confused "I love the way you make me feel" with "I love you"? You've never confused "What you do makes me very happy" with "You make me very happy"? You've never confused repeated sessions of great sex with intimacy?

Good for you, must be living in crystal clarity.

Most people live with some degree of fantasy. I think you can point out when the someone is caught in the fantasy. And this will happen frequently on boards like this. But if you have the same feelings for your bar tender as you do for a regular SP, too bad for you.

I know your intent was humour, but there's also alot of smugness in your post.
 

Teddybear

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smugness....

...certainly wasn't meant...or felt...the post (in it's original time context, when there had been a rash of posts about people wanting advice after falling for their fave sp) was meant as a lighthearted look at keeping professional relationships in that place: professional. once in a while, an addition to the post gives it far more longevity than it should have had, and changes the context in which it's interpreted. and as far as equatiing the feelings for an sp with my fave bartender, my intent was not to bring feelings into the discussion at all. rather, I was alluding to respecting and enjoying whatever service someone provides, without assuming an emotional commitment.
 

syn

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my thoughts ...

i have to say that i thought the tone of t-bear's post was a little smug initially - though i was thinking it was more than a little apt at the time ... there seemed to be daily posts on how to win the love of an sp/mpa ... i was about to make a post suggesting that gentlemen look to quest or lava life (telepersonals)... rather than to their escorts for 'relationships' ...

from the perspective of an sp - and i am sure that many of the other sp's can relate - there are always going to be clients who will misinterpret your feelings - especially if you provide the gfe (cuddling, intelligent conversation, massages and a genuine interest in providing the utmost satisfaction to your clients). unfortunately, some of these clients will sometimes fall under the illusion that the feelings are mutual and reciprocated. while it is true that some relationships develop from the professional capacity - in my experience, it is far more likely that a client will have his heart bruised, ego shattered and his money taken ...

when i was working, i usually tried to limit myself to professional gentlemen travelling to toronto on business - i prefered married men who were over the age of 35+. part of this 'screening', was an attempt to limit the number of 'suitors' who seemed to want more than a professional relationship. i wanted to avoid these awkward type situations.

one little pointer - when a client was crowding me or making me feel a little uncomfortable ... i would stop taking appointments with him - or maybe encourage him to see my roommate ...

syn
 
Re: my thoughts ...

syn said:
from the perspective of an sp - and i am sure that many of the other sp's can relate - there are always going to be clients who will misinterpret your feelings - especially if you provide the gfe (cuddling, intelligent conversation, massages and a genuine interest in providing the utmost satisfaction to your clients). unfortunately, some of these clients will sometimes fall under the illusion that the feelings are mutual and reciprocated. while it is true that some relationships develop from the professional capacity - in my experience, it is far more likely that a client will have his heart bruised, ego shattered and his money taken ...
That's why some SP refuses to give typical GFE to the client since client will be misinterpreted as he has the potential. Let's face it, many guys see SP with GFE are either looking for something his SO refuses to give and too uptight to consider, or he is a reject who can't score any hot chicks in a civilian world and look for an easier way out.

The latter one is more vulnerable than guy with SO since he has no wy to fall back to when the SP offering GFE says, "Sorry hun, it's just about business. We don't spark."
 
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