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Poll... Best, most enjoyable BJ method?

Poll... Best most enjoyable BJ method?

  • Provider does most/all the 'work'

    Votes: 25 71.4%
  • Receiver does most/all the 'work'

    Votes: 2 5.7%
  • 50/50

    Votes: 8 22.9%

  • Total voters
    35
  • Poll closed .

TheNiteHwk

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Last night I was totally thrown for a loop when a LF of mine posed this question to me. She caught me by surprise cause if you knew the lady I am speaking about this is TOTALLY out of character for this person. Anyway here's the question:

Is a BJ more enjoyed by a man when the man is more or less still and provider is bobbing her head and doing all the work or better when the provider is more or less still and the man is pumping.

I wonder what the ladies think too... what is better for them?

I told my friend I would pose this question to 'an internet community' and get back to her... she was very thrilled.

My answer btw is 50/50... I like both equally.
 
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Cool Dude

Why not try it with her both ways NiteHwk and see for yourselves?:p
 

Jenn_angel

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Hello....!

Ok you hit one of my fav. topics now....

I love to give .... LOVE IT...

As for my opinion....

I like it when it is interactive ... He moves a little... Touches my hair... Cheek.... Even laces his fingers through my hair .... I like to look up and watch his face as I do it. I like to do my thing... change it up a little, and tease as I go... I like to vary it to suit my partner.

I feel it is something both can participate in.... Trust me she may be even more responsive if she has positive feed back, I know I am. I think it is ok for one or the other to do all the work sometimes but I have found it more enjoyable as a whole to share the experiance.

I also think it is important to read body language on this one, everyone is different and if it is the same for eveyone, not everyone will enjoy it.
 
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Willywants

Nothing Like Enthusiasm!

You really had me going there Jenn_a!
Then when you hit the caps, I lost it all together!
Where does all that enthusiasm come from??
Where does all that enthusiasm go??
Where does all that enthusiasm live??
Can one just click his heels and get there??

So many questions, I'm out of breath!
Then again, maybe it wasn't the questions!

Willywants (to go back and re-read the post!)
 

Jenn_angel

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Willy...

That passion and enthusiasm lives in me, comes from my heart and soul, and shows up as I see fit.

Willy you know how and where to find that....

The unusually high drive I have might help a bit.... ;)
 
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Willywants

High Drive!!

Jenn_a!
If your drive is unusually high, you may want to tee the ball down a bit, spread your legs a little further apart, plant your feet firmly and go for the hole in one!

Willywants (to play another round!)
 

Jenn_angel

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ewwwww

Now comparisons to golf are a little too crass Willy.

;)

Especially as it doesn't fit - G.O.L.F. stands for Gentelmen Only Ladies Forbidden..... Not with me hun I am equal oportunity. lol
 
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TheNiteHwk said:
Is a BJ more enjoyed by a man when the ......... provider is bobbing her head
I'm pretty much in agreement with Jenn_angel's outlook on bj's but I have to say I don't care for this "bobbing of the head" that you describe.

I think it is far better done when it is slow and deep and VERY wet.:D

I want to get to throbbin without the bobbin!
 

syn

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a hard man is good to find!

there is something so incredibly erotic about giving head while on my knees ... with his hands holding the back of my head as he fucks my mouth slowly ... guiding his cock in and out of my wet mouth ....

[i love the expression from samantha on sex and the city: "you may be on your knees, but you got him by the balls!"]

when i am giving head, i like it when he bends over so his head is above mine and i can him gasping in pleasure ... and jenn .. i agree 100% .. there is nothing more sexy than whan a guy gives feedback ... and lets you know what feels good ... personally - for me - the more graphic, the better.

other favourite positions ... while lying on my side on the bed with him positioned slightly above me .. it allows the cock to go in deeper down my throat .. and i love it when a guy is not passive and is willing to participate.

i also love it against a wall ... when i am giving head ... and i love to make it last ... vary the speed, intensity and pressure ... use my mouth and plenty of astroglide with my hands ... and i love it deep ... and i love a guy who will rub his cock all over my face, my breasts and in my mouth ... sigh ...

i love to make eye contact while i am giving head ... there is something so hot about a guy who is watching me 'perform' ...

i love a guy who can make it last ... but then again, i love a guy who just loses control and can't help but cum ...

a beautiful cock can be so incredibly mesmerizing ....

... sigh ... a hard man is good to find!

syn
 
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xarir

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Geez syn, I have to stop reading your posts when I'm in the office! :p

I prefer the provider doing most of the work, but I don't think one should just lie / stand / sit still while the action is going on. Communication is key. Some touching to encourage the action goes a long way sometimes.
 

DavidO

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Re: a hard man is good to find!

syndy said:
there is something so incredibly erotic .... when i am giving head, i like ... other favourite positions ... i also love it against a wall ... i love to make it last ... i love it deep ... and i love a guy who will ... sigh ... i love to ... there is something so hot ... i love a guy who ... but then again ... mesmerizing .... ... sigh ... syn
Goddamnit!! I have to go change!

Excuse me, I'll be back later.

DavidO
 

option

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Re: a hard man is good to find!

syndy said:

... sigh ... a hard man is good to find!

syn
I am willing to try at anytime, I will be graphic, will try on the bed, will try on the wall, and I will try to make it last.

And I will sure make eyes contact:eek:
 

butch

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re:best method

Being on the receiving end of a loving and enthusiastic hummer has to be one of life's greatest pleasures. Gotta be up there with a perfect sunset, the smell of grannies fresh baked bread or sinking a 20 foot putt with $$$ on the line. Those who claim that there's no such thing as a bad blowjob are sadly mistaken.

What about comparing head to intercourse? Is one position sufficient or is the variety of motions and changes of scenery crucial? Give and take is what it's all about.

I don't think that anybody has mentioned the indescribable sensation felt throughout your nutbag when your lover lets go with a low, throaty moan while devouring your pole. Didn't mean to get too worked up but what a great topic.
 

TheNiteHwk

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Thanks...

Hey ! Thanks all who voted and posted. I told my LF the results. She thought that was really kewl. She's having 'puter problems right now... however if and when she gets hooked up again we may have a new member. Thanks again:D
 

malata

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there is something so incredibly erotic about giving head while on my knees ... with his hands holding the back of my head as he fucks my mouth slowly ... guiding his cock in and out of my wet mouth ....

[i love the expression from samantha on sex and the city: "you may be on your knees, but you got him by the balls!"]

when i am giving head, i like it when he bends over so his head is above mine and i can him gasping in pleasure ... and jenn .. i agree 100% .. there is nothing more sexy than whan a guy gives feedback ... and lets you know what feels good ... personally - for me - the more graphic, the better.

other favourite positions ... while lying on my side on the bed with him positioned slightly above me .. it allows the cock to go in deeper down my throat .. and i love it when a guy is not passive and is willing to participate.

i also love it against a wall ... when i am giving head ... and i love to make it last ... vary the speed, intensity and pressure ... use my mouth and plenty of astroglide with my hands ... and i love it deep ... and i love a guy who will rub his cock all over my face, my breasts and in my mouth ... sigh ...

i love to make eye contact while i am giving head ... there is something so hot about a guy who is watching me 'perform' ...

i love a guy who can make it last ... but then again, i love a guy who just loses control and can't help but cum ...

a beautiful cock can be so incredibly mesmerizing ....

... sigh ... a hard man is good to find!

syn
Damn, good heads are hard to find these days.

 
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