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hardlicks

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I'm currently in a situation where I'm seeing a very nice SP in Ottawa. The only thing is she's falling for me. The times we spend are very hot - i.e. DFK (tons), massages, DATY (for hours), BJ's galore, lots of conversation, positions, etc. you name it- we do it! She tells me she'll do anything I ask! (MMmmm...)

The last time I saw her she said she doesn't want me to pay anymore. She says whenever I'm horny, just call and she'll look after me!

Has anyone else ever been in this situation?

hardlicks
 

wooly110

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be careful....

...not to get to the point of there being an emotional attachment. It can happen. That's not necessarily a bad thing mind you, but, only if it's something you both want and are ready for.

It's really boosts the ego, to have an SP tell you to come over for some fun and not have to pay for it. Think of her now as a Bonking Buddy.

I have one that I can go and see. Although, it is very infrequent, but, when we do, it's on personal time. :)
 

Muddy

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Well, it happened to me - and I had a wonderful three-year live-in relationship as a result of it. We still talk every now and then on the phone, but I haven't seen her for two or three years. She is long out of the business, but she was a sweetheart, and there are times, 15 years later, when I still miss her very much.
 

tycoon80

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Bonking Buddy that's a good one! LOL
I saw a lady for almost 15 yrs as well. I had to end it because the wife found out about us and would have taken everything in the event of divorce. I miss this special lady everyday. She was in the business very briefly (that's how we met). I suppose I was her SDaddy, but I know there was a lot of passion and sparks in the relationship. I've no idea where she is now. I did ask her to live with me during the first year and she said no. Obviously I fell for her way before she fell for me! I now do not get emotionally involved with SP's.
 

tycoon80

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hardlicks if she's falling for you go for it! The only thing may be the (sp) background may eventually be a problem? JMHO
 

newinottawa

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I spent some time with an SP who was hinting that she would like to date me. She tells me to call her anytime, even just to talk. Unfortunately, she was a little older than me and drank too much, so I stopped seeing her.

I also dated an escort when I lived in Ktown. She told me she was a stripper, but I eventually found out about her "sideline". She also drank alot and abused drugs, so I dumped her.

My advice would be to take the free sex, but not to get attached.
 

luvdancers

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I was not sure whether I wanted to reply to this thread, but oh well here goes. I went out for a few months with an escort in Toronto, some years back.

The first time I saw her she was working in an MP that had few restrictions... later by total fluke I answered a NOW ad and she opened the door....

It was not love at first sight, for either of us for sure -- she was cold to me and made no come ons. But she was by a huge margin the nicest looking woman I had slept with until that time, so cold or not I was ready to go.

So I started going to see her once every week or two weeks (I don't live in TO, but used to travel there on business) until she started telling me to call someone else.... I guess I must have had an instinct this was a good sign, not bad, as I persisted to the point of an actual phone argument on the occasion of my last "SP" visit.... where I won. I went in, expecting goodbye, and once we were in bed well let's just say it changed from SP to lovers within 10 minutes. She produced my cash from my previous two visits and handed it back.

Anyway, my point IS, I was lucky. She was drug-free and drank little, no partying. She was intelligent. And I had had enough time around her to KNOW the separation she made between work and the rest of her life, and the discipline she applied to that.

So, I was never jealous. I rarely thought of what she was doing at night and it did not interfere with our time together. We spoke on the phone during the week and I went to see her every weekend. The only concern I ever had was for her safety, in the "bad date" sense -- but she was an excellent judge of character and AFAIK she never had any problems with clients.

But I shudder when I think about how different it could be. The whole scenario could easily have been a one-way ticket to pyschological hell, in other circumstances.

Anyway, we eventually parted as we weren't cut out for the long run. I lost track of her... I hope she made it out of the business okay.

I no longer do the SP thing regularly. But now, as for almost a decade, I do know a fair number of dancers well, well enough to know about their personal lives. I have dated two.

Trust me, you would rather walk five miles on broken glass than get trapped in some of those lives. How different are dancers from SPs? I don't know. Maybe most SPs are more together than dancers. (God I hope so.)

But as good as it may be to punch the ticket to free, high-quality sex, no man is an island and it would take a stronger man than me to not get drawn into some sort of relationship if I were in bed with an attractive woman once a week or more, on an ongoing basis. Hell, even dancers can get men hooked to the point of distraction.

So my advice is contradictory: go for the sex, for sure, but keep it in perspective. Never let down your guard, and never close your eyes to the real truth of what her life is about. That may be good, it may also be bad, as we don't know who you are talking about.

Just keep your wits about you.

Whew. Lots of words.
 
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