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a question about overnight appts.

meee

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I'm not sure how many of you have had an "overnighter" with an Sp, but for those of you who have, I'm wondering what kind of experience is it? By that I mean, what do you you expect from the SP for the $1000, $1500 or whatever it costs you. Like, how many SOG's (I hate that term) do you expect? How much activity and anything else would you want from that type of appt.? And I'd like to hear from the SP's on this one as well. What do you expect from your "overnight" clients and what will you allow during that type of appt. ?I really want to know about this. Thanks
 
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overnight....

I'd say- because I know you a little bit- you might want to go with someone you have seen already. An overnight with a newbie might be uncomfortable- but hey, you never know. I've done a few, and mostly had good experiences, but usually, with a regular. Get a hotel, have some drinks, and get cozy. Talk about what you expect, or want- but do it in a nice way. Don't offend the girl, or scare her. This can happen- even with good intentions.

They can be lots of fun. I have done ones where we've stayed up until the wee hours talking, and a few where our hands did most of the talking. Don't worry so much about SOG's, so much as having a good time, and making eachother feel good. If you book the whole night, don't waste it, and use up all your energy in 2 hours! Relax, and get into it. The rest should take care of itself.

Good luck, if you decide to take the plunge!! Just some thoughts

Diane. :)
 

meee

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Thanks Diane for your comments. I didn't mean to imply that I am planning an overnighter anytime soon, but I may want to do it for a one-time treat, provided my finances ever allow it. As I've posted previously, I am basically into 1 hr. appts. for outcalls and occasional 1/2 incalls like Oasis due to financial reasons and also due to my age I need to wait awhile for another "try". I guess what goes on and how long it goes on basically depends on the "chemistry" (I also hate that term!) between the client and the escort. I would imagine if a good time was being had by all, things could go until the wee hours with very little sleep.
 
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Chemistry....

meee; you may hate the term, but I think chemistry is important, especially when taking more time. I think you'd probably do good, but you know what you are capable of.

The only other thing- I had an overnight, and the guy kept mentioning the money and how expensive it was. It pretty much ruined the mood for me- and though I was nice to him, I do think it is rude, and mean spirited. It really makes things uncomfortable.

Some clients used to do it- perhaps being nervous- and that is ok, but it's not good if you want to have a nice time, and forget about it... Though I am not saying you would do that.

Just an aside.


Diane. :)
 

Chukit

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Don't just measure performance

Sometimes the greatest experience's have nothing to do with the # of SOG.
If you enjoy the company of the lady you are with, often the afterglow & intimacy makes the experience memorable.
I once had a session where the foreplay & snuggling was so great that it was almost an intrusion to progress to the main event. In that case though, the SP took the lead in ending the foreplay mostly I suspect because she felt that was what was expected of her as time wound down.
 

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meee (CM) said:
I'm not sure how many of you have had an "overnighter" with an Sp, but for those of you who have, I'm wondering what kind of experience is it? By that I mean, what do you you expect from the SP for the $1000, $1500 or whatever it costs you. Like, how many SOG's (I hate that term) do you expect? How much activity and anything else would you want from that type of appt.? And I'd like to hear from the SP's on this one as well. What do you expect from your "overnight" clients and what will you allow during that type of appt. ?I really want to know about this. Thanks
Potentially, the two most enjoyable experiences are to travel with your favourite companion or spend an overnight with her. I have been fortunate to have done both and, in fact, have had both a travel experience and an overnight in the past two months. The essential thing for both arrangements is it should not be a first time experience with that person. Can you imagine being stuck with someone you weren't compatible with miles from home! If you have had previous encounters then both parties will know if the chemistry is there and no one will worry about the level of 'physical activity', it will just happen as it should between two adults who enjoy each others company.

A word to the wise though, make sure that you are intellectually stimulated by each other as well as physically, especially when travelling. Best of luck to you!
 
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iguana

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All night is the best!

Most of the women I've been with have been all night. To me its the best. Nothing rushed. Seems most like "the real thing"..you can have sex in the morning if you want. It's great to keep waking up beside someone new and just snuggle and feel around and just not feel rushed. The first time I did it was with no intercourse, but I went all night with the same woman again a few weeks later. Much better than any 1-2 hours.
 
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I have had a good number of overnighters in countries other than CA/UK/EU/US, and it's great. Waking up to a nice backrub and early morning romp.
 

Jenn_angel

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I had a few conversations on this lately...

Ok... This might sound like common sense to some of us but it needs to be said...

If the woman is going to be with you from 5 p.m. until the next morning... I would advise supper... LMAO(I am killing myself laughing writing this)... I know of an overnight reacently... Where it started at 5 and the poor girl had to wait until 6 a.m. the next day to eat...

I think it was just a matter of mis-communication but... LMAO

Ok... First of all... Make sure you get along with her, have common interests... Sometimes... I have even heard of finding out if you enjoy the same type of movies... Just an idea... Like you were already told... Sit back and relax... Find out if she drinks wine?!? Or what ever... Find out her preferances... It helps. Find out if she is a smoker... Or non-smoker... This could be important with an overnight.

Pick someone who can hold your interest... And is not just something to look at for a few hours. Someone told me the way that they do it is... If he would not ask her to have drinks with him in his real life... (For the conversation value at least...) Why would he book her for anything longer than 2 hours? I think it is a valid point...

If you decided to do it... Have fun... And let us know how it went... At least whether you would ever do one again...
 

oldguy

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You have to remember that an overnight appointment is something very different from the typical 1 hour meetings. It should contain a lot more of the 'companionship' side of things - dinner, conversation,... I greatly prefer these types of appointments, but it can be a bad idea to do this blind with someone you never met before.

Also, unless you are rich it is very expensive for this in CA/US. I usually save up and do that when I go out of the country on vacation - in other countries you can share a vacation with a nice companion for a daily charge that a top CA/US girl would charge for an hour or two.
 

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...just imagine if your lucky you wont have anything in common and your 2 romps may even be separated by 6-8hours of Scrabble...oooh a $1500 scrabble game. or you could save your $ spread your naps out and see 3 different hot chicks and have enough money left ofer for fine hotel dining and wine for each to enjoy with you!...hmmm....
 
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