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Sir Lancelot

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Question for SPs and clients alike:
Has any SP had a gentleman come to them with the sole purpose of asking for education on how to be a better lover? Maybe on how to be better at something specific like DATY? Or maybe how to be better overall? And clients, have you ever sought the educational advice of an SP?

It could be a very purposeful visit as in “Teach me how to xyz” or a more subtle after session question of “any tips for me?”

The reason I ask is that I once saw a Nevada brothel menu that listed such an educational service. It got me to thinking that SPs would indeed be perfect for this for several reasons: a) they have experience, and b) the gentleman would feel more comfortable asking something like that “out-of-relationship.” After all, there are professional sex surrogates/therapists that offer such services, why not SPs?

Your thoughts and comments please.


May peace be with you this holiday season, and always.
 
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sweetdiane

great question....

Sir Lancelot. Yes, I've had lots of clients come to me for that reason, though in all seriousness, I never felt they needed lessons- they seemed to be doing pretty good- but maybe some needed lessons in being more gentle...... I have a thin frame and sensitive body, and some men are very aggressive.

Hope this helps. It's kind of nice when someone does ask for that, and lots of fun, but usually it's turns out they could teach ME a few things. lol.


By the way, I did what you said re; Marilyn quote- but it didn't look right, so I changed it back.

Diane. :)

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Cloud

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Thank You Sir Lancelot

This is one of the main reasons I see escorts !!!!!

I've heard that men and women have differing views on sex, and that some men really don't have a clue what women want in bed.

Whom do I want to please in bed ? Women.
Who should teach me these things ? Women.
Well whaddya know, most escorts are women.
I have no shame in learning something new from escorts -- and I like doing so. It's surprising what really does it for some women.....it's really small things that you'd never even think of.

And the best part ? I get to put all of these skills to use on my girlfriend. I don't have one, but wait 'til I get one !!!!!

In the meantime, what can the next escort teach me ?

Cloud :)
 
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zog

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Sir Lancelot said:
And clients, have you ever sought the educational advice of an SP?
Interesting what you find when you review (very) old threads...

I've never called an SP for an official lesson but I do like to take the opportunity to try new things with an SP. If it goes well it's great...if it does not work out...it's no big deal...on to something else.

With a woman you've met socially, it may be awkward to try new things if your relationship is just getting started. Most good SPs are willing to try new things and they don't complain if you're not a super-stud.

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In the world of psychologists, they're called sexual surrogates. And it's a recognized practice. Only, they cost a lot more than an sp...
 

shack

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It was never a conscious intent of mine when I started, but in hindsight I can see that I've learned a wealth of information from the ladies I've met up with. They're probably educators more often than not, even when they don't know it.
 
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All, I'll say in response to this thread is Aphrodite (aka Jenn Angel) is one heck of a teacher.

Knowledgeable, patient and intuitive!
 

PDL007

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If it's educational, I can claim it on my income taxes.

Good Job guys. Wait i need reciepts. How do I explain it to my accountant.

Marriage councelling. Yay thats it.
 
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shack said:
It was never a conscious intent of mine when I started, but in hindsight I can see that I've learned a wealth of information from the ladies I've met up with. They're probably educators more often than not, even when they don't know it.

I agree shack I have learned so much in the last while. My only regret is that I didnt learn all this 30yrs ago.

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