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What's with these Hamilton girls?

You might recall my thread of a few months ago where I was stood up by Laura on three separate occasions. Having moved on from that "rejection" (!) I made an appointment with Tanya/Tiffany a couple of weeks ago. I confirmed that morning via PM and arrived in her neighborhood on time, only to find her... missing. I drove around for an hour, phoning every 10 minutes or so. My calls were variously unanswered, or answered then disconnected. (Hung up, or lost signal).

After accepting Tanya's explanation via PM, I tried again. Once again, I arrived on time, only to get no answer on the phone! So I drove around again, wasting $1.35 gas. Eventually she answered, only to advise that friends had invited her out for dinner, so she decided to go rather than keep my appointment. To her credit, at least it was an honest answer, and not the usual "family emergency"!

Tanya has many fans on here, and by most accounts, she is a wonderful provider. But it's unlikely I'll call again. Honoring an appointment should be something a guy can rely on, shouldn't it? Perhaps they don't realize that we spend the day looking forward to seeing them, only to be let down, which, in my case anyway, just pisses me off...! So we go home, kick the cats, yell at the neighbors, and beat the children.

We have often read threads on here about girls getting pissed at guys that don't show, and this is understandable. If we would all just learn to keep appointments we have all made, or at least have the decency to cancel in advance, this hobby would be a hell of a lot more fun!
 
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calloway

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You went above and beyond Stoo. It sounds like you were respectful... courteous and followed her rules for setting up an appointment.

As you stated... I was also waiting for the standard family emergency line to be used. From one standpoint... at least she was honest about wanting to go out for dinner with friends. But from the other perspective... she obviously didn't care about your time and cost of travel.

Three times previously and now a fourth... I admire your patience Stoo. I would have packed it in after the second time. She's off my TDL.
 

Revxengineer

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Stoo,

To answer the title of your post........they're all FUCKED and a bit self absorbed!!! There is something in the water in Hamilton (and elsewhere) that makes ladies think that they can do whatever they want and treat guys however they see fit at that time and god forbid we be unhappy about it and complain on a review board. The sad fact is they know there are a lot of uneducated (as in not on TERB not as in dumb) clients out there that will just call and show up and give them money and if the experience isn't all that good and they don't come back - who cares (see GND)! We won't even go into how almighty the instant dollar is when you book an appointment and are to call XX mins prior to confirm and another guy calls XX+1 mins in advance from nearby and can be there quickly you get bumped for the instant $$$$. Nothing worse than driving to an appt and calling and getting no answer and then sharing the experience only to get the "family emergency" excuse here!

Enough ranting - have fun!
 
Revxengineer said:
- have fun!
And a Plan B... apparently! :rolleyes:

I don't want to cast large generalities since there are many good, reliable girls out there. I was just reading about Heather in the Niagara section for example. I have seen her many times over the years and was NEVER stood up by her...

The KW area has many top knotch SPs that seem to be very reliable as well...
 

Stfum

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I just throwing this out there, but......

maybe the same hostility in these posts may be filtering its way into your phone calls? What would you do if someone called you and you felt uncomfortable or even slightly threatened?

I can't even imagine some of the things these ladies must have to put up with.

:confused:
 
Andy Stitzer said:
What she effectively did was spit in your face, and not a nice clean spit, but a thick mucusy gob of flem spit, right between the eyes.
LOL... I don't know that was really all "that" bad, but I get the drift... And I agree sadly, sometimes a little white lie is preferred... I figured she could have at least said that she'd be back at x PM and offer we meet then... Mind you, that's kinda of what happened the first time, and then she she vanished!
 
Stfum said:
I just throwing this out there, but......

maybe the same hostility in these posts may be filtering its way into your phone calls? What would you do if someone called you and you felt uncomfortable or even slightly threatened?
Stfum, I think you have a valid point, but I don't believe that there is any chance of that in my case. I don't think my posts here are even remotely hostile... just a little whiney!

The stream of PMs I exchanged with Tanya (and Laura before her) were all very friendly and apologetic and filed with promises to try again next time. For what it's worth, I have become somewhat chummy with a number of the women I have seen and frequently chat with them on MSN and in one case, I see a "retired" girl out of town who only sees a couple of guys. So I don't think I am at all the type that might be considered "threatening"... I am a very easy-going sort, fabulously handsome, hung like a horse, an amazing cunnulinguist (?) and my breath is always minty-fresh. Any girl who stands me up doesn't know what she's missed! :D

Of course if Tanya or Laura read this and feel otherwise, I would hope that they would contact me to tell me this. I'd feel terrible if that was the case!
 

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Stoo said:
... I am a very easy-going sort, fabulously handsome, hung like a horse, an amazing cunnulinguist (?) and my breath is always minty-fresh. Any girl who stands me up doesn't know what she's missed! :D
You left out your resemblance to Brad Pitt!!!

g_27
(A George Clooney look-a-like)
 

Hurricane Hank

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I have seen both these women. It's too bad about Laura. She is not a GFE, but I have seen her a few times.
Saw Tanya as well. I don't think you are missing much. You are sadly mistaken if you think you're missing a Mariah or Shauna type experience. Not even close.

Stfum: If the girl is sensing some hostility from Stoo (doubt it) I don't think she would make an appointment, then stand him up. That just makes people mad.
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warwagon

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Hurricane Hank said:
Saw Tanya as well. I don't think you are missing much.QUOTE]

Exactly the opposite opinion from me there HH. Tanya should not be missed. And for what it's worth, the day I saw her I called at noon and my dick was wet by 1:05pm: GFE with no drama for under $200. Toronto should have those kinds of problems.

:D

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Stfum said:
What would you do if someone called you and you felt uncomfortable or even slightly threatened?
err...perhaps I would not book the appointment?

Oh no, wait, I have a better idea!

Why not just go ahead and book the appointment, then jerk the guy around 2 or 3 times - you know - stand him up, change the time, then don't answer the phone - you know, the usual stuff, all in fun really. I would feel a lot safer that way...
 
Hurricane Hank said:
Saw Tanya as well. I don't think you are missing much.
Well that makes me feel better!

warwagon said:
Tanya should not be missed.
Well that makes me feel bad again!

Hurricane Hank said:
Stfum: If the girl is sensing some hostility from Stoo (doubt it) I don't think she would make an appointment...
Her reply after our first mis-adventure was very apologetic and she offered to meet again and said she was looking forward to it!

Anyway, no point flogging a dead horse. Shyte happens and I'm not going to dwell on it, but wanted to vent to my Brothers. I'm a big fan of shopping at home, but it seems to be more difficult than I would have expected!

The unfortunate side-effect with starting threads like this is that it probably just pisses the girls off, so neither Laura or Tanya would probably see me now anyway. If I KNEW that it was not going to end in a massive dose of Testicular Congestion, I'd probably be gullible enough to try again! :eek:
 
Well, I just received a nice PM from Tanya who has explained what happened and offered to "make it up" to me...

This is the part where I feel like a shit because she's such a nice girl. As I said in a PM to her, I don't want to come across as "attacking" her... just her business practices!

(But now I don't know if I should try again... ugh.)
 

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Revxengineer said:
Stoo,

To answer the title of your post........they're all FUCKED and a bit self absorbed!!! There is something in the water in Hamilton (and elsewhere) that makes ladies think that they can do whatever they want and treat guys however they see fit at that time and god forbid we be unhappy about it and complain on a review board.

I dont think thats fair to generalize every woman that works in this industry to be this way. There are some genuine providers that actually care about their clients. (Tables can turn both ways dont forget)
 

hunter001

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Revxengineer said:
Don't let Hunter scare you.......it's what he's hunting for!!!! ;)
No. Just not fair to Tanya.

Stoo said:
And now his post has disappeared... Oooooo... Creepy!
Not that creepy. I deleted it. You edited yours so no need for what I posted.
 
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