I was wondering the other day why my favorite SP never remembered from one visit to the next, the tidbits of information I would give to her. " I am going on holidays to XYZ for two weeks", " I have a child getting married". On subsequent visits she never asked "How was the holiday?" How was the wedding?" etc. etc. I started to think, the average good SP probably makes about $150M to $175M per year. At $150. per hourly visit, that is between 1000 and 1200 visits per year. Suppose we make a visit to a particular SP 5-6 times a year, that means she sees about 200 different guys a year. I can understand now why she can't keep info on me. I don't like it any better but at least now I figured out why she doesn't mention anything. I guess they mean more to us than we mean to them!!!!!!!! Just a point to ponder.
A point to ponder
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I expect there are damn few Sp's making the $150K to $175K you reffered to. While there may be the potential to make incomes in that range, very few do. Most would not make half that amount. Thier "hot" factor has less to do with their earnings than you may think. Often the hotter a girl is the less she has to work. Like many "commissioned" salespeople they tend to work on a need to basis. Once their rent and food is covered for the month they slack off. I have known several extremely good looking girls with huge earnings potential including strippers who do take out on the side who don't own a car or even a telephone.
I don't mean to make them sound lazy - at least not all of them. Many of the 'assembly' line girls who do large volume burn out quickly and have to take a lot of mini vacations to stay sane and fresh.
The girl that can't remember anything about you is probably not very professional. A top professional salesperson in any field makes it a point to remember (take notes if neccesary) their good customers interests and let's the customer know they remember. It's just good business to do so. However, the girls we deal with are often barely 20 years old with no business training or experience, therefore they just don't know any better.
I don't mean to make them sound lazy - at least not all of them. Many of the 'assembly' line girls who do large volume burn out quickly and have to take a lot of mini vacations to stay sane and fresh.
The girl that can't remember anything about you is probably not very professional. A top professional salesperson in any field makes it a point to remember (take notes if neccesary) their good customers interests and let's the customer know they remember. It's just good business to do so. However, the girls we deal with are often barely 20 years old with no business training or experience, therefore they just don't know any better.
It`s the ones that validate you that deserve your repeat business IMHO.mobil2 said:
Have you seen the thread I started about what makes a quality SP?
Your answer is there.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=175713
She`s not very good assuming she is offering a GFE service. Not all SPs do however.
If you ARE seeing a GFE provider, you should consider an upgrade. Again see the thread. Your favorite SP is a girl mobil (not a woman).
Most of the pros can pick up if you want more than just want a more than a drop-n-pop in the first 5 minutes of your session and accomodate accordingly. These women are givers and want to make all of your dreams come true (for at least an hour anyways)
With the kind of numbers that are being thrown around in this thread, I have a good idea who the lady is, not many ladies in this area can make that kind of money. It also depends on frequency of visits, I see a lady here at least 1 to 2 times a month and yes she remembers everything. Seeing a lady 5 or 6 times a year might not cut it, but up to a couple of dozen times a year will.
The girl that can't remember anything about you is probably not very professional. A top professional salesperson in any field makes it a point to remember (take notes if neccesary) their good customers interests and let's the customer know they remember. It's just good business to do so.
How true, how true. I've said this before in this forum, and I'll say it again. The mature SP's in the "biz" have got it right. Customer service is the #1 priority. They "get it"
How true, how true. I've said this before in this forum, and I'll say it again. The mature SP's in the "biz" have got it right. Customer service is the #1 priority. They "get it"
I am always surprised about how much they do remember. There is one particular lady I saw this summer whom I hadn't seen for about a year and she seemed to remember all sorts of things, asking me about things we had talked about in previous conversations. I can certainly understand how it would be difficult for them to remember personal details, but to me it usually adds to the enjoyment of the session. I don't think it's something you can expect and I don't, but I do believe when it's part of the package it probably makes them some more money.
Wouldn't read too much into it. Some people are just restless and have thoughts dancing around in their heads a lot of the time... at the expense of memory. My hairdresser doesn't remember how I like my hair cut or stuff we talk about. But she's pleasant enough and does a fine job cutting so I return. It's just the way she is.
The less they remember the better. I get a little freaked out when they remember to much. I had one remeber the date like 4 months later. This is a secret life and I want to keep it that way!Kitwat said:
I find that a lot of MPA's/SP's have very good memories. Makes you think a bit when they seem to track your hobby patterns and know how many days/weeks its been. Also, when they ask how things are going now with the GF kind of tells me they are listening to what we say!
I always find these kinds of discussions funny. These ladies are friendly and wonderful, but let's be real, they are doing it for the money. Don't expect some kind of special friendship or bond to develop. You may go to the same coffee shop every morning, but you don't expect them to give a shit about your life.
If you want friendship go to LAVA life. If you want some quick, fun action with no flirting or work on your part, pay the money and have the fun
If you want friendship go to LAVA life. If you want some quick, fun action with no flirting or work on your part, pay the money and have the fun
I prefer friendly chat and such but I don't want too much personal info being traded back and forth. It is a risky game to play. Just because you are getting some doesn't mean you can trust the lady. She probably has your cell number on her phone and lots of bad shit can happen
you would be surprised to know most ladies keep these sort of things on file, if only to review them before your next visit. But still i would say its very dangerous to have this info out there at an incall. So most importantly remember that it's all about money
Just by reading the thread, it is obvious that clients differ in how much they want an SP to remember. Yes, it always comes down to the fact that this is a business but the ladies are in the service industry and familiarity always breeds goodwill. In general, I don't like having to rehash conversation points if I'm making small talk and I've seen a lady before. Thus to me, this is a matter of quality and like others have said, this SP doesn't really deserve the repeats if she does not remember details or cannot read mobil2's willingness to chitchat backgrounds. If an SP simply repeats what she has already been previously been told and doesn't pry for more info, I don't think she's crossing any line and then just simply being friendly and creating the goodwill that deserves repeat customers.
BTW ... Who doesn't like feeling special if you are remembered? You'd like to think you made a good impression even if it's because you are a paying customer.
BTW ... Who doesn't like feeling special if you are remembered? You'd like to think you made a good impression even if it's because you are a paying customer.
