Last week was my 1st time, gave a nice massage, you can choose hard or soft. Strictly hands off, especially below the waist. It was a fantastic massage, she must be registered massage therapist. It was my first prostate massage, it took getting use to. Felt uncomfortable at first then it eased in a bit. If, you haven't tried it before, then you should, just to see whats it like. I might repeat one day, but I just wanted to see what it was like. She used her fingers, I don't believe a glove was used, but lots of oil. It cost $45 for half hour, and She did not ask for any money but I gave her $120. My neck and back felt great, did not have the big 'O' because I'm not into that sort of thing, prefer full service.