My opinion
go with one of the lovely independents (as Stoo says read the posts and you will quickly find some of the good ones...)
personally I think the LE 'factor' is much lower at an indy's 'one on one' place than going to some of the 'houses' (not that I haven't been) where much more likely to draw attention and also (just my opinion) much more likely to get charged as a found in...
actually in some ways, you could argue and indy's place is even safer than the MP places you may have visited ...if any of those places are offering "extra" services---I think they are probably even more likely to get busted--especially if they are a "public" place (i.e. signs, ads and all that)...many of those places have been busted in various parts of Ontario...and the real bitch of it is---you could be visiting the place and think it is 'above board' and those services are still be offered without your knowledge...
but what do I know---not a lawyer or LE! :-}