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twizzler2

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Sep 17, 2005
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There was a Cupid thread, somewhere between my starting to respond and clicking submit the thread dissappered. Anyway, here is my response.


I am truly sorry you had a dangerous situation here in Ottawa no one deserves that, It's a must be a horrible feeling especially being away from your "home turf".

I assume that I am the poster you are referring to who "bashed" you about your canceled appointments.


know that I prefer honesty in all situations but this may have been a mistake on my part as I have been bashed by one poster on this board because I was so honest.
I don't have a bad word to say about you because you were honest, I think it's great. You could have done far worse by lying about your reasons and getting caught.

Knowing the truth I don't agree with what you did or why. Clearly there quite a few members who do accept what you did and are okay with it. In fact the people who agree with you seem to be in the majority. You also say you have been busy here both times you have come, which is understandably important.

Given these facts, I am surprised my post makes your list of reasons not to come back.

The last point I'd like to make is this;

People are in part governed by the way they believe other people perceive them. Thinking that people believe you are an upstanding person of good values ( even if you're not so sure yourself ) acts as an internal deterrent to behaving in a that would be contrary. In order to do so you would having knowingly cross that barrier. Similarly when you believe people think you are not a good person, that internal barrier of "what people will think" has already been removed. In short, treat people like criminal--you get criminals, treat people with respect-- you tend to get respectable people.

I don't know what kind of dangerous situation you had but I know violence in this industry is far too high. Both customers and SPs find themselves in dangerous situations on both sides of the situation. Part of the reason for this is that we have bought in the stigma of being second class citizens, we don't expect more from each other. That's one of the truly sad aspects of this industry, we allow this kind of behavior because we don't expect anything more, we do it to ourselves. As customers and service providers we need to do better at treating each other with respect, and hold ourselves to higher standards. I think that's only way things will get better.

Thank-you for responding,

Twiz
 
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