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Musketeer

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In the post 'the age thing' we looked at the attraction that older men have for both mature and younger sp's.

Now here 's a question for men under thirty. Why would you pay to have sex with an sp? Shauna mentioned in that post that she has clients as young as twenty-two.

Before I turned forty, I would have never dreamed of paying anyone for sex. Yet, I see more and more young guys joining the review boards and paying for sexual services. Is this a growing trend?

This is particularly interesting in light of recent demographics showing that there are more women than men in society, especially in the urban areas of Canada.

Is it that younger guys have more trouble getting into relationships because of busy work schedules? High divorce rates? Or is it merely the curiosity of being with an older, more experienced woman, (the Mrs. Robinson syndrome)?In the case of younger Sp's, is it just being with the young 'hottie,' one always dreamed about in high school, but could never take home to Mother?

Or, is just a case of affluent young men having alot of money to play around with and wanting to satisfy their curiosities? This is after all an expensive hobby. Just curious?
 

crazyhorse33

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I started into this hobby not all that long ago and got into it as a result of travelling with work, mostly do it while I am on the road with a few encounters in my home area now and then. THe reason I got into it was to have some fun while not with anyone, I would not continue if I was in a relationship. I just do it for the fun and enjoyment of meeting some different women.
 
expensive hobby

not really an expensive hobby as dating.

Hammertime took the words out of my mouth.

After hobbying for a while, I had a date on Friday night. Went to a nice fine dining restaurant in Waterloo, ordered a nice meal, only a soup as an appetizer. ( I would of ordered some calamari, salad, and escargot, but the girl did not order appetizers, so i just ordered the soup of the day).

Asked my date if she drinks wine, she told me she only drinks white, I told her I only drink red. So I told her to order a glass of white for herself. She put the guilt trip and said, "don't worry, order the red".

So guess what, since I knew I was going to end up paying for the meal, I said to mytself, I might as well order a red bottle and even if I do not get a peck on the cheek, at least I can enjoy my red wine for the night.

Make a long story even longer, the bill came to $150. I thought to myself, that was an even more expensive hour than being with one of the kw gems. And with the gems, the $150 actually includes tip.

Believe me, that was just the beginning. Went to a local bar, got drunk.
Spent another $200. Now, could not drive home. Another $25 cab fare for going home. (saved $25 in the morning and got one of my buddies to drive me to my vehicle).

End of the night, $400 gone, and if I told you the rest, you would think it was a soap opera, so I won't even bother explaining the madness that occured, but the only one that ended up at my place was me.

Bottom line, I agree with hammer that this hobby is cheaper than dating, so when muskateer is asking why do so many young people get in to it? The answer quite simply is, it is cheaper and easier, and with so many young people being more computer literate than before, it is easier for us to read up on the experiences of the elderly. (Muskateer, Sorry for calling you old).

IMHO with terb members with a couple hundred experiences (2950 to be exact! forgot the zero at the end (lol)), we learn to respect their reviews and if they say that they had a great experience with a gem in the area,,, well,,, "I might as well try her for myself" is the mentality of most.

It's less expensive than dating and it is an experience that I am spending my hard earned dollars on.
 

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1211george said:
not really an expensive hobby as dating.

Hammertime took the words out of my mouth.

After hobbying for a while, I had a date on Friday night. Went to a nice fine dining restaurant in Waterloo, ordered a nice meal, only a soup as an appetizer. ( I would of ordered some calamari, salad, and escargot, but the girl did not order appetizers, so i just ordered the soup of the day).

Asked my date if she drinks wine, she told me she only drinks white, I told her I only drink red. So I told her to order a glass of white for herself. She put the guilt trip and said, "don't worry, order the red".

So guess what, since I knew I was going to end up paying for the meal, I said to mytself, I might as well order a red bottle and even if I do not get a peck on the cheek, at least I can enjoy my red wine for the night.

Make a long story even longer, the bill came to $150. I thought to myself, that was an even more expensive hour than being with one of the kw gems. And with the gems, the $150 actually includes tip.

Believe me, that was just the beginning. Went to a local bar, got drunk.
Spent another $200. Now, could not drive home. Another $25 cab fare for going home. (saved $25 in the morning and got one of my buddies to drive me to my vehicle).

End of the night, $400 gone, and if I told you the rest, you would think it was a soap opera, so I won't even bother explaining the madness that occured, but the only one that ended up at my place was me.

Bottom line, I agree with hammer that this hobby is cheaper than dating, so when muskateer is asking why do so many young people get in to it? The answer quite simply is, it is cheaper and easier, and with so many young people being more computer literate than before, it is easier for us to read up on the experiences of the elderly. (Muskateer, Sorry for calling you old).

IMHO with terb members with a couple hundred experiences (2950 to be exact! forgot the zero at the end (lol)), we learn to respect their reviews and if they say that they had a great experience with a gem in the area,,, well,,, "I might as well try her for myself" is the mentality of most.

It's less expensive than dating and it is an experience that I am spending my hard earned dollars on.
True enough. You've made some valid points. But it sounds to me like you want to avoid getting involved in a long-term relationship or make a commitment with anyone. Or, perhaps you just haven't met the right person.

My generation was different. Ladies didn't expect to be wined and dined at expensive reataurants, and many of the 'burn the bra' generation ladies, paid their own way even when we more gallant gents tried to do so.

It's true that both men and omen were more idealistic and less materialistic back in the 70's and love was more freely given.Today, it seems as if it's all about $$$$ especially in North America.
 

crazyhorse33

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I agree with the all about the $$$$ comment to an extent. It seems at times that there are alot of women out there that are more interested in what you have than who you are. The problem is weeding through these women to find the ones that value who the person is over material worth. Until I find that then this hobby is a good thing to have and enjoy.
 
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"Or, perhaps you just haven't met the right person.



Ding Ding ............. we have a winner with the last part of your sentence. "





In todays society, what does meeting the right person mean???
After all, 1 in 3 get divorced. Is it because, ladies do not want to be dominated by men any more (which was the case 50 or more years ago when 1 in a thousand got divorced).
Or,,, is it because, they can support themselves and do not need men (2% of executive positions were held by females 10 years ago, and 45% of executive positions are held by females today)?

And, even if the right person does come along, depending on how much money a person has, it is still more expensive than hobbying because a divorce will cost 50% of your net worth and you will end up hobbying in a couple years time anyways.
Might as well save the hastle and jump right in to things. Only thing I'm missing in the picture is where kids come along.
And even if I do have children, if it is a male, no problem... But if I ever have a female, she'll never be allowed to date anyone until she is married.

just my $0.02
 

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I am young and hobby because I don't have the time. I do have civilian girls that I date regularily, but sometimes you just can't beat the variety in this hobby. The costs work out to be the same actually...:cool:
 

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not only the $$'s spent have a big part to do with it, for me time is also an issue. with busy work scheduals & travellling it's just easier (although I'm an occasionally hobbier)
with a serious relationship I think often you've got all that emotional BS to go through many times before getting lucky. like the old East Side Mario's jinggle
"Bada Bing, Bada Boom" - do your thing and be done with it
 

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When you young Gentlemen reach an age and have been married for a LONG time, certain things in that marriage will come to an end and you will appreciate those lovely Ladies that go beyond the, Wam Bam type of service that some (I won't say all) younger providers supply. The more mature Ladies seem to, shall we say "Enjoy What They Are Doing" more and it Shows. See Mariah, Victoria and Shauna (whom I have not had the Pleasure yet, but has excellent reviews). IMHO
 

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I would be careful in calling Victoria a "mature" woman - she might smack you considering she is only 25 :D She just shows a level of maturity not found in some of the younger girls.

goalie000 said:
When you young Gentlemen reach an age and have been married for a LONG time, certain things in that marriage will come to an end and you will appreciate those lovely Ladies that go beyond the, Wam Bam type of service that some (I won't say all) younger providers supply. The more mature Ladies seem to, shall we say "Enjoy What They Are Doing" more and it Shows. See Mariah, Victoria and Shauna (whom I have not had the Pleasure yet, but has excellent reviews). IMHO
 

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bigguy2004 said:
I would be careful in calling Victoria a "mature" woman - she might smack you considering she is only 25 :D She just shows a level of maturity not found in some of the younger girls.
You are so very right, and I apologize to Victoria, but this was not ment as a slight to her in any way. More of a compliment on her Ability and Maturity like you said.
 

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I rarely see an SP for straight sex (maybe once or twice a year). I usually see one for the kinky stuff that wouldn't go down so well asking a girl for on the first time out.

I'm 24 (almost 25) and for me, I really enjoy the 'thrill of the hunt'. I don't get why you guys want such a sure thing? for me it's like playing tennis against a 5 year-old. I love going out and not know 'who' I'm going home with or 'if' I'm going home with anyone and playing all the games. I think the social skills I've built from that has seriously improved my confidence and people skills when going for (and usually getting) the jobs I want.

No offence to anyone my age who hobbies regularly (cause that's your thing and I don't judge), but I don't get the social conquest or point of paying for guaranteed sex. I guess maybe cause I look at sex as less of an act and more of a goal. There times where in a night, if I know it's a for-sure thing early enough in the night I'll lose interest and probably won't follow through. Like two weeks ago at Phil's, I met this 2nd year Asian girl from UW and it was a slamdunk by about 11:00 pm, and I instead went home at 1:00 am and had some more beers and played darts with my friends.

And not wanting to spend the money on dating is the worst excuse. in the last 5 years I've been with between 85-95 women (not counting SPs), every time with a condom, and I don't think I've paid more than $60 for a 'meeting'. Now I've been blessed with having many Obi Wan Kenobis and Master Yodas in my life teaching me the ways of dating and women, but I have found you just have to be unique and carry a good conversation when on a date. One time I met a girl for breakfeast and we couldn't find any place but this gas bar at 10:30 on a Sunday morning so we went there for $2.99 breakfast and she said the next day if was one of the best dates ever and she'd never done that before and called her friends to tell them about it. I have never once gone to a movie with a girl cause it's expensive, you can't talk and, more importantly listen (which seriously hinders your chances of scoring), and it's been done how many time in the history of dating?? I was thinking of writing a book on called something like 'how to date women with just the change in your pocket'

sorry for the long rant, but I was just trying to answer the question
 
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