The age thing......

fourteen · Mar 7, 2006

I found the other post about "D...y" is 17, etc. quite interesting but a little too personal for my liking. I don't agree with posting a lot of personal details about individuals on a public website. I understand that Hammertm had the best of intentions.

But I am not here to complain about that. I WOULD like to hear more discussion of a general nature (no names please) about the fact - I think it's a fact - that many of us are older guys and some of the ladies we see are quite a bit younger.
Sometimes it makes me feel silly when I am seeing someone so much younger than myself, although whenever I have raised the question I have been assured that it is not an issue for them. Still......I wonder what they're really thinking.

Many of the girls do seem to genuinely enjoy older guys because we tend to treat them nicely. So I've been told. Or maybe because as a group we can afford to be perhaps a bit more generous with tips. (?)

My personal feeling is that it's risky psychologically for very young women to get involved in the adult business, but it always comes back to Calloway's comment - she's 19, she's an adult.

I would like to hear as many comments from the ladies' side about how they few the age thing. Perhaps if you are a guy under 30, you might ignore this thread - you will find that as you get older your opinions and attitudes change significantly. To reiterate, I am interested in the ladies' pov.
Thanks.
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calloway · Mar 7, 2006

If a 16 year old male lost his virginity to a 40 year old SP... most people (including women) would be giving him the high 5 and a plaque. Reverse that around and jail time is in order. 19 is the age where I draw the line.

I also don't agree with the posting of the other thread. I think it will bring more unwanted attention to the situation. I personally stayed well clear of the situation until age confirmation was provided by credible sources. Although obviously unintended... this will bring her a lot more business from curious clients. But I also worry about the LE. We often talk about a bust... and the number one reason they usually bust a place is over possible underage SP's.

PHNINE · Mar 7, 2006

The whole thing about SP's only seeing men over 30 is bullshit. I have spoken to many SP's that turned me down before even getting to meet me. I understand that there alot of young guys out there that would be disrespectful or unrealistic about their needs, but I just get so pissed when this happens to me. Especially when I am a good client that usually opts for multiple hours or overnights. I dunno...just a pet peeve...hmmm should add this to my pet peeve thread...

Aloha · Mar 7, 2006

IMO
When you are at a younger age entering into this business, I feel that it may be a bit psychologically unsettling at times. Depends on the individual and how worldly they are at a young age. When I entered into the business I was in my early 30’s. I had mental challenges at times but you learn to deal with them the best you can. Will it be damaging to them as they age. I don’t know…..
You think at that age they should be thinking about furthering their education or on their career path to success. But everyone has his or her reasons. Sometimes it is just survival for these girls.
But from a mans POV. I can only go by ex’s and present SO opinions. Younger girls now a days look older and older ladies are trying to look younger. You see a beautiful girl in passing, you think what a sexy 23 yr old (and the other nasty thoughts) and maybe find out she is only 18. You think to yourself how could I? But there is that animal instinct.
I have a daughter (won’t mention the age) and she looks 5yrs older than she actually is. In some ways it is scary.
As for seeing clients under 30, I think for the more mature ladies it is just maybe conversation. What do you talk about? I have clients that are as young as 22. Depend on the clients.... I still have a great time. With me it is not about age.

Stoo · Mar 7, 2006

Mick Jagger used to have an understanding with his daughter that he wouldn't date anyone younger than she was. That has been my approach with SPs. My daughter is 19.

Although having said this, I prefer more mature SPs... we have more in common. I have noticed that as a group, many SPs are wise beyond their years. I suspect a number of them have done a lot of living in their 20-odd years on the planet, and not all of it would have been good.

My favourite SPs are both 29 or so... still a lot younger than me, but more than half my age anyway!

nautilus · Mar 7, 2006

I've been told by a couple of younger ladies that the over 30 clause lessens the chance of them running into guys who travel within their social circle. That makes sense to me.
I also recently had a situation where a different MPA came into my room and said I'll be seeing you instead of "Marie". This was due to the fact that a 20 year old guy was a walk in and this lady just couldn't see someone as young as her nephew, because it was just too creepy. This ladt was perhaps 30ish. Just a couple of plausible situations.

fourteen · Mar 7, 2006

On most topics I am interested in everyone's opinion and I know there are a lot of smart crackerjack young people around. I work with several under thirties and I have a lot of respect for their skills and knowledge. However, on this particular topic I was hoping to hear from older guys and from the ladies in the bus. about the matter of older guys seeing younger women.
When I was younger - under 40 - I would have never paid for sex and said so many times to my friends. But now, I have no problem rationalizing it to myself. Hey, you only go around once you know, and all that. I have always been attracted to beautiful females, but my tastes are now trending toward some who are less than half my age. I just wondered what others think of this question.
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Peter123 · Mar 8, 2006

Younger SPs

I for one do prefer a slightly older sp...I do find it somewhat "weird" being with a lady that is young enough to be my daughter...

I also (generally) find that older sps are just simply better at what they do...from a technique pov but also just a making you feel "special' thing..better conversations, etc (Can anyone tell I am thinking about Mariah and Shauna right now?

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Now yes I have had perfectly good times with younger ones

And Daisy and Miss Erin are defintely on my "to do" list...so I am not totally consistent in this!!

joej · Mar 8, 2006

Age is just a number. Hopefully a legal number. Over the past couple of months I've seen 3 what I would call younger SPs. One was 19 (betch you can't guess who that might be). One was 20 and the other was 22. I felt as comfortable with the 19 and 22 year old as I would with Shauna. More mature?...not sure but they seemed older in terms of ability to carry on a conversation. The 20 year old felt like I was with a 13 year old....yucky and not pleasant. I like a mix. Younger can be nice but not too young. But then you mix in some of the older ladies around here and you wonder why you bother with the young ones. Bottom line, age doesn't make a difference. It's all personality.

Having said that it, it is kind of weird if the lady you're with is younger than your daughter

Musketeer · Mar 8, 2006

Peter123 said:
I for one do prefer a slightly older sp...I do find it somewhat "weird" being with a lady that is young enough to be my daughter...

I also (generally) find that older sps are just simply better at what they do...from a technique pov but also just a making you feel "special' thing..better conversations, etc (Can anyone tell I am thinking about Mariah and Shauna right now? )

Now yes I have had perfectly good times with younger ones

And Daisy and Miss Erin are defintely on my "to do" list...so I am not totally consistent in this!!

DITTO! I don't have a daughter but I teach students that are 18 -19. I would find it 'weird' to be with a young girl that is young enough to be one of my students.

These are still kids in my books, especially when I listen to their conversations, their interests, their boyfriends etc. Certainly there are some that are more mature than others. But they are the exception rather than the rule.

At age 50, I find that I prefer women that are in their late twenties and thirties as I feel that I have more of a comfort zone with these ladies for the reasons Peter mentioned. Besides, these women are at the peak of their sexual prime as their experience and sensuality clearly demonstrate.

That's why I always make it a practice of being with older, more mature Sp's.

CUTTERBUCK · Mar 8, 2006

It's all been said, over and over. Let this thread go.

FLT · Mar 9, 2006

fouteen, you pose some interesting question. I'm an older guy too and there are very few Industy Girls even close to my age. Most of the ones I see wouldn't be available to me in a civilian setting. However, I do tend to avoid the under 25's. Although they can be more visually appealing, my head has to be stimulated too.

I've had the same feedback as you about many preferring older guys. I think the it's simply a matter of they get fewer hassles and we tend to have more disposable income. Remember that the same girl may be telling young guys that she prefers them for their virilty or whatever. Their job is to keep us coming back. Not all IG's think that way and frankly it's not fair to some of the young guys. A lot of them have the money and treat the girls very well. It's kind of the way young guys get stuck with higher Car Insurance Premiums - unfair to some but as a group they're a higher risk. I tend to discriminate against younger girls. In SC's, I've found myself more comfortable with the plus 30 crowd. For the most part I've encountered less BS with them.

All this is well and good BUT there are exceptions to most rules. Age can be meaningless in some situations but I'm with fourteen about some girls being too young to deal with the Adult Industry.

bOOTyMaN · Mar 9, 2006

Hypocritical

Hell, i think half of us guys would bang a glazed doughnut

May your consciense be your guide but alas if she is 19 or 30 your still buying peach no matter how you try and justify it.

calloway · Mar 9, 2006

bOOTyMaN said:
Hell, i think half of us guys would bang a glazed doughnut

Only if you put it in the microwave for 30 seconds first...

centreofmass · Mar 9, 2006

bOOTyMaN said:
Hell, i think half of us guys would bang a glazed doughnut

To each his own! As for me, I'm more of a fruit EXPLOSION kinda guy.

sorely · Mar 9, 2006

calloway said:
We often talk about a bust... and the number one reason they usually bust a place is over possible underage SP's.

And so they should !

Stoo · Mar 9, 2006

fourteen said:
When I was younger - under 40 - I would have never paid for sex and said so many times to my friends...

I didn't like asparagus when I was younger either, and now I'm quite fond of it. It's amazing how your tastes broaden when you get older!

Yarmon · Mar 9, 2006

mrorange said:
I don't think its fair to post something like this, and expect to exclusively get responses from the ladies pov. Yes there are several locals, and elsewhere, that only want to see men over the age of 30 (with few exceptions). To assume that older men, however, are the only ones that might "treat them nicely" or generously is a misnomer. I've never had any complaints, to my knowledge, and I'm not far past that imaginary prime meridian of thirty. And while you are right that my attitudes and opinions will likely change as I age, I doubt the niceties and my tender attitude towards women will change at all as I get old. Older men and younger men alike are both capable of having friendly dispositions, or the diametrical opposite. Just my two cents....

MrO

I don't think it is just niceness as we age.
We have less stamina and we are more gratitude.

Yarmon

Musketeer · Mar 9, 2006

Now ain't that the truth. Yarmon is right on the mark. Lol!

Jolee · Mar 9, 2006

Yarmon said:
I don't think it is just niceness as we age.
We have less stamina and we are more gratitude.

Yarmon

I dont want to speak on all sp's behalf, but I am sure most will agree... "less stamina and more gratitude" dont even come close to comparing to being with a gentelman who knows how to treat a lady right. Spending time with a true gentleman (nice and all) is priceless!!!
xoxox
Jolee

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